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nomy asked:

19 Feb 2009

how can i make my sister forget a dude?

he is like a total asshole..and he left her..cause he said he can't change...and know all my sister does..is stain in home..and cry all day..i tried 2 open her eyes..and show all his defects..but it doesn't work any idea?plz

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xxthe_rad_beatlexx

xxthe_rad_beatlexx says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2009

i think she has to come to a conclusion herself about this guy...you could help by just doing what you're doing. maybe encourage her to hang out with some of her friends more...she'll come around ;) i know...that was me this summer. when she's with people who don't hurt her, she'll find that she likes that so much more.



i think, anyways ^^;;; hope it helps at least a little bit.

x_elena

x_elena says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2009

sit her down, toughly, and straight, tell her to move on and forget about him, *this is wat i did wit hmy firen* ordr pizza oir something loll, make something, cupcakes ?? iduno what you wud do, get her something she really wants, tell her to find someone else that will care 100% bout her, and not to take anymore risks, show her how probably how her boyfriend has moved on and isnt crying his heart out, and tell her to do that, not to cry lol, but to get up and do something,.. go shopping with her, go to a spa, give her a cute makeover, but, before you do anything, tell her to go wash her face, that helped cool people down, and then, after that, make her laugh, i duno, trip or somethinglol, then, you do out soemwhere, if you drive lol, i duno ur age, but i think u drive? well, tell her to get ready, pick out some cute clothes, and run out the door, drive her like downtown, uh, for a wak , but not to tlak about anything to do with her boyfriend, also, remember this, dont take her anywhere her and her boyfrind went a lot. buy like coffie or something lol, wen ur cmin home, laugh in the car, open ur windows, and blast the music in ur car, and just go crazy lol. and dont go straight home, go around a few blockes to rrefresh her memery bout evweryhting that happened... when u get home, do like an "at home spa" do ur nails, make facemasks,

(wen they gt hard, poke her face so she laughes lol)

put cuecumbers on ur eyes and make fun of yourself and her for fun tho, not to be mean.



hoep i helped:)



elenaaax

randi23

randi23 says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2009

This is something she is going to have to figure out on her own...the best thing you can do is be there for her and listen when she needs to talk. Dont be judgemental and just be there to pick up the pieces. Try to get her to do things she enjoys..if she declines just keep trying. Or just sit at home with her..she just needs understanding and support right now...no matter your feelings about the guy...it will not change hers...she will eventually realize she is so much better off. Time will heal her pain and it will make her stronger and make her see she deserves better.

krista090

krista090 says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2009

hey!!

i suggest you:

listen to your sister when she feels like talking, without being judgemental...telling her that he is an asshole wont get you anywhere. try getting her to go out even if its just shopping or the movies (for now avoid watching love stories since they make her very sad probably).

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