Confirm

Are you sure?

Comfirm Cancel

Login http://www.becomegorgeous.com/users/auth/facebook

Or Login using BecomeGorgeous

Register

Please fill the form below and follow the further instructions.

By registering, you are agreeing to the terms and conditions.
We will not sell, rent or give your email to anyone so don't worry about spam.

Recommended

http://www.becomegorgeous.com/users/auth/facebook
Password Recovery

You are about to receive a email from us please make sure to check your spam or junk folder and add our email email@bg.com to your contact list.

Thank you!

purple

Large

Aries

Status

General
Female
20 Apr 1989

About
:) tell u later:P..luv my baby dog..fyfy... sports all kind of sports...:) luv 2 smile..everyday...and smile even more when the sun is on..:)..i forgot i'm 19:)) soon 20:) yupie..luv 2 party..and..smile again:)) hehe..

  • 87 Rank

  • 780 Points

Thumb

nomy asked:

16 Feb 2009

do u think ppl can change>

i mean from good is easy 2 become a bad person..but do you think..that from bad..is hard 2 become a good person?i ask cause i know some one who thought he could change from bad so good..and he was wrong:)

1618_thumb

Answers

girlcalledblue

girlcalledblue says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2009

it is easy for a good person to go bad

but it is hard for them to right themselves again

but not impossible



my best friend for 12 years changed as a person, she hurt everyone that she knew (including me), got into drugs, hung around in a bad crowd and is now one of those girls who will just go and beat you up once her friend set her on you

i know its a bad thing to say but it is true



i told her that i wasnt going near her while she was like this i was going to be a friend to her

but if/when she changed back i would be the friend that i was beforehand to her straight away and forget about before



she is on her way getting there and has been to rehab to get herself off the drugs



but it is babysteps

your friend will be able to do it if he is willing enough and stong enough

but it wont happen over night

it might take months, years but he will have to be patient



hope i helped

blue

b-)

x

jewelxoxencrusted

jewelxoxencrusted says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2009

yep dey can but its up2 dem

its onli gona happen if HE wants 2 change so makesure dts how it is

xoxo


mimy

mimy says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2009

baby, seasons change, but people don't. (unfortunately) :(

x_elena

x_elena says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2009

idk, i thik that girls change faster then guys can.. cause, as you can see, the guys 'motto' is that they are pigs.. sadly, and, its harder to get them to behave then it is for a girl ... thats wat i think , but , i dont think all guys are "pigs" i would call them more lik, uh.. un organized loll.



hope ihelped:)

babyblue

babyblue says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2009

anyone can change its the matter of fact what people think is right or wrong and what they want.it is true for a girl to change because we are more emotional as people ,caring rather than most guys who dont really care and want to have fun without dealing and talking through problems.depends what the problem is ,it might be harder for him to change from what he was because of things but life would be so much easier if we could all read people minds and see what their really thinking and feeling.

tyjim

tyjim says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2009

I think once you go bad, it's hard to want to be good again. Like, if you party. It feels good. That high you get being around all those people, or when you get drunk/stoned. It's something that is addicting to the mind. And once your mind likes something, it's hard to get away from it. I don't think it's impossible. For guys and girls, I think it's the same. Media just makes girls seem more intellectually advanced and makes guys seem like future child molesters. It all depends on how badly the person wants to change. If the person has no motive to change or "be better", then it will be a lot harder for them to be happy, and be accepted.

randi23

randi23 says:

Posted on 17 Feb 2009

i do agree it is hard for people to go good once they have gone bad..but from personal experience someone really close to me changed back to good again..it took awhile and i was very very cautious at first..but they have become living proof that people can change.

Login To Answer