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neonsrt asked:

14 Feb 2012

Boy problems!

I went out with a guy for 3 years on and off.He was my first in almost first love,first *time*,and first guy to truely break my heart.He broke up with me for a dumb reason then wanted to go back out with me ,I was truely hurt by what he did (he cheated constantly )and never wanted to go threw that agin so I didn't take him back.but he still pursues me .he comes to my house,he use to tell people we still went out and I was no help letting him .its hard to be mean to the person you loved so badly even with all the stuff he's done.He. Won't stop teasing me by acting as if he's changed.Just yesterday he came over and teasing me and then he butt dailed some girl!I just wanna get over him but he won't let me .I can stand up to and brush off boys no problem but since its him I just can't I've tried but he keeps coming back.I don't wanna cry over him anymore the tears are from disappointment and feeling used.I really needs some advice and I wish someone to talk to. Sorry for the saddning question.I may be heartbrocken on v-day,but I truely do hope everyone else has the best v-day they ever had .May there valentines day be filled with love .: )



firefox_12 says:

Posted on 15 Feb 2012

I've also heard Valentine's Day called single awareness day. In a way, it's true!
Back to the problem.
The tears never stop coming. Ever. Believe me on that. I cry over guys that broke up with me forever ago, because it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, right? These are tears saying you have a heart, and he broke you bad. He hasn't changed. If he's cheated on you constantly, then he's used up his second chance and does not get another one. The first thing you have to do is make sure you don't love him any more. At all. Not even the smallest bit. You have to know that he is not good for you and you deserve better and that there are about a billion better men out there that will love you to peices.
Then you give him the cold shoulder, make it a point that you don't find him funny and don't want to be around him. Work up a good cold glare and give it to him not too often, but often enough. When he catches on, he'll leave you alone or ask what's wrong with you. If he asks, tell him to go away. If he's worth anything, he will.
Good luck with this. This is a sad situation that i wish you didn't have to be in.


firefox_12 says:

Posted on 15 Feb 2012

I do hope it works. Best of luck. :)


iluvpandabears says:

Posted on 23 Jun 2012

People who are attracted to you because of your pretty face or your nice body won't be with you forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will stay by you forever.


berekiss says:

Posted on 02 Sep 2012

If he cheated on you he didnt change. If he only likes you for your pretty face and body then thats not really being in love with you and hell leave. You need to go out there stop thinking about him. Show him how strong you are. Go out with people and find a guy who likes you for you. Save those tears for those who do care about you and for happy moments. and as for the stuff he does talk to a counselor it can sometimes get pretty extreme.


neonsrt says:

Posted on 15 Feb 2012

Thanks,and Im going to try everything you said.Hopefully it works. : )


neonsrt says:

Posted on 16 Feb 2012

it worked thanks.who knew being mean was so hard. lol

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