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music lovexx

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music_lovexx asked:

14 May 2011

how do you get your self confidence?

I have terrible self confidence.

I'm african-american

and people are constantly commenting on my skin tone, just because im darker

this happens everyday and its shredding my self confidence,

not that i had any before.

but people at my school are so cruel making fun of me all the time

and iv'e had several breakdowns and have had to leave class

i put so much makup on sometimes, i dont even reconize myself, but for some reason it makes me feel better



so how do i trick my brain into believing im beautiful?

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gtan88

gtan88 says:

Posted on 14 May 2011

You dont have to have white fair skin to be beautiful. There are many beautiful, dark-skinned women out there, and you could be one of them. You could put makeup (a little) if you want to boost your confidence. Thats good. Ignore your classmates. If they call you ugly, that doesnt make them beautiful. Let them face it, every insult to you is a insult to them. Go girl! :D

dragana94

dragana94 says:

Posted on 14 May 2011

People only make fun of them who are better than them,they aren't very confidence,so they try to cover that with jokes,and being mean.Your skin tone,look on the bright side,you don't have to put so much foundation,you don't have to go skin tanning because you already have beautiful tan.I'm soooo white like snow,and when I go out I have to put foundation to look a little bit darker.You're beautiful,tell that to yourself every day in front of mirror. :DD

pweddieprincess

pweddieprincess says:

Posted on 14 May 2011

first off.....you gotta know dat anywhere u go in dis world ur gonna fid ppl tht hate u or love u or dont care bout u but the most important thing is tht ur urself and you must love yourself because god moulded you this way and those kids at ur skl are so long timeish....cuz racismn dosent get anyone fairer or darker....and i thnik theyre just jealous......so hunni when life gives u lemons u make lemonade!

gee_jade

gee_jade says:

Posted on 14 May 2011

i totally agree with the others. don't let people affect you. the only opinion that truly matters is yours. having dark skin is great. i flipped through a bobbi brown's beauty book once and was stunned when i saw an african-american teen. her skin was so beautiful like chocolate. she stood out in a good way. you got what you got. OWN IT. go girl! :D

pweddieprincess

pweddieprincess says:

Posted on 14 May 2011

and ps dark skni is great..look at keri hilson, halle berry, jordin sparks......lots of stars trey songz usher........soo much!!!!

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