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music1996

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music1996 asked:

29 Jan 2011

My mum's boyfriend fingered me last night what will i do .

last night my mums boyfriend who is in his 40s was rubbin my mums feet . when i told them i had sore legs from doing pe earlier that day he offered to massage them for me . then mum went to bed and me ,my little sister and him stayed up watching csi . he then pulled a blanket over me and said that it was to keep my legs warm as he continued masaging he moved up a little and then moved into my pants and then started masturbating me . im really scared and dont know what to do . he then came up to my room and told me not to tell anybody and that hes stick his tongue in me sometime . i dont know what to do . i dont want to tell my mum or the police .

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mkh

mkh says:

Posted on 05 Feb 2011

they are right I let a simmilar situation go on for over two months and it justed got worse. tell one of your best friends moms or your fav. administrator at your school they will be able to help. please contact me I would like to walk you through this it is hard without any support .even though we are strangers to each other i want to be there for you i had no one and i almost made life changing mistakes.

chloelouise

chloelouise says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2011

First of all before you contact the Police or tell you mum or any one else; was it with your consent? In other words, did you give him permission to do that to you/you didn't mind him doing it to you. If the answer to both of those questions is 'no', then this makes the whole situation more serious.

I'm sorry to say, but if the answer was 'no' then that incident is considered Sexual Assault. You must contact the police. Tell them exactly what happened. Don't worry about telling your mum. If you don't want to tell your mum, the Police will let her know.

Please contact the Police as soon as you feel it is necessary. You may feel embarrassed or shameful, but the Police deal with this all the time, so don't worry. It's best to get this problem tackled now, before the situation can worsen in anyway

I hope everything goes okay

dinoxdisko

dinoxdisko says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2011

TELL YOUR MOTHER! it is AGAINST THE LAW for a man to touch a minor. it is molesting! please tell your mother dear. trust me, he will keep doing this to you if you dont. ou need to do something

prayerheals

prayerheals says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2011

You might be scared to tell your mum, but its something you HAVE to do! He will continue hurting you UNTIL YOU SPEAK OUT ABOUT IT! Look within yourself and LOVE yourself enough to say THIS IS NOT RIGHT and I WILL NOT ALLOW you to hurt me.

He has the power right now because you haven't said anything, you need to get YOUR power back and remember this is YOUR LIFE not HIS. He is NOT ALLOWED to do this to you and should not be allowed to continue!

My prayers are with you for strength and courage.

jackiewackie

jackiewackie says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2011

First! this is NOT YOUR FAULT! You have to tell someone or it will happen again and he could do this also to your little sister. He's a monster. Tell your father, grandparents, aunts or uncles or a trusted teacher at your school and let them tell your mom if you can't. Talk to an adult about it and they will know what to do. Be strong and don;t be scared to ask for help.

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2011

Sweetie, I'm telling you this from expierence so I DO understand. The best thing to do is tell somebody. I wouldn't tell your mom. Idk...maybe it's just me, but I find it quite odd that your mom even let him massage your legs. I have a step dad and he would never do something like that, even if he tried my mom wouldn't let him. Let alone my own dad has never done something like that. Try talking to somebody at school or even a friend...if worse comes to worse tell the police. I know it's rough, but you must. Chances are he'll try to do something to your sister next. Just remember, it's NOT your fault and you're not alone. This goes on everyday. Good luck...and if you ever need to talk add me as a friend. I'll be happy to talk to you. (: God bless.

vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 30 Jan 2011

this is disturbing. you need to tell someone before he goes to far or tries to do it to your little sister. he needs help and to be away from you guys. i would tell your mom but if she doesnt believe you tell a teacher you trust or the police before someone gets hurt. ewwwww!

music1996

music1996 says:

Posted on 30 Jan 2011

thank you everyone for your help . it helped alot and i took it into consideration and i told my sister 5 minutes ago and shes sortin it out for me to stay at my aunts tonight .

esacrayzee

esacrayzee says:

Posted on 09 Feb 2011

tell your mom.she should be the one to tell n no one else she'll tske it from there.all hes doin is intimidating you when he is the one that is scared cuz he just commited a crime!

vampgirly

vampgirly says:

Posted on 27 Jul 2011

if u didnt say he could, you have to tell ur mom and the police, that is against the law, and you do not have to put up with that. u have to, have to call the police or it could get worse

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2011

Or tell somebody else in your family.

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