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mstewart411 asked:

25 Jul 2009

Ok so here goes nothin....

I have been told by many upperclassmen that i am ugly. They wont shut up about it. My friends all tell me to ignore it but they dont know wat it feles like there all pretty and have guys in love with em. I dont know what to do?

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_riah_

_riah_ says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

Okay, I know that's a hard feeling! People who are 100% confident in themselves would not say that about anyone else. Saying that you are ugly makes them feel better about themselves..but the truth is when you call someone ugly it doesn't make you any prettier! So, what's the use, right? And it takes a toll on self-esteem.



YOU ARE NOT UGLY, mama! You are lovely. Your friends are right-you do need to ignore that. I know it's easier said than done but you're the person you're going to live with for the rest of your life-not them! Why try to get their approval when the only one you need approval from is yourself? You need to be happy with yourself. I know it can be hard when it is coming from different sources and a lot of people. But just know that you are not ugly, and they somehow feel like calling you ugly will make them prettier...if their ego needs that then they can go right ahead! An ego is a truly ugly thing to have!



You seem like a sweet girl, you shouldn't worry about these losers. They don't know anything and they themselves are insecure and in need of a reality check and a major attitude adjusment! Be you, and rock it. You're beautiful! :D

ashleyxangelbite

ashleyxangelbite says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

What i would do:

ignore them, or say well at least i dont look as repulsive as you!



Don't worry tho! You are beauty!!! Don't listen to them!!;)

3nir

3nir says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

If their boyfriends love them just because they are beautiful, then they are using the wrong word --> love. You're not ugly. You shouldn't let them rule your life. If you feel like you're not pretty or if you're worried about your appearance then get a make-over. Change you hairstyle, buy some cool outfits (doesn't have to be expensive), and add some colors to your face (I meant the makeup).

missrandom

missrandom says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

You are beauitful! gorgeous eyes, i think you should just but a little mascara and maybe some eyeliner, and lil lipgloss, and your set!!! 3nir is right, those guys who date girls just cos they r beautiful are losers and should learn to get a life. you shouldnt say silent when they insult you, but you dont exactly need to create a scene either.just stare at them and smile sweetly, seriously...they get a bit shocked by your reaction and dont know what to say....XD hope it works for you..they just call you ugly cos they dont have anything better to do in life, ignore them. you ARE pretty, a cute smile and confidence is the only way to go in life...:) just keep walking with your head held high, with confidence, and smile, without self confidence, u cant do anything...omg, im sounded like a freak...lolz...anyways...yeah...:D

little_miss_sunshine

little_miss_sunshine says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

I understand you completely. Alot of my friends hae really clear skin and I have the spottiest and even though it's not that bad it can still make me feel really ugly infront of them. Maybe one of them has really nice eyes, another face, another figure - you get what I mean but you have lots of things which are lovely about you. One of the things which stands out to me is your hair, its lovely... But remember, you are not ugly, those boys are just rat bags and you shouldn't listen to them. Your friends are right and maybe you just havent met the right kind of guy just yet, but you will soon. You are really pretty - remember that and try not to compare yourself with your friends.

kirstiebabiecakess

kirstiebabiecakess says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

im in the same situation, thats why i have joined up!

what i doo is ignore them but i know itss hard,so what i am doing is trying new hair styles,hair colours and just trying new things and i know i will find the right one do thhe same, you are pretty by the picture so go tell them different. When you get a boyfriend show off to them,

xxrawr_skittlesxx

xxrawr_skittlesxx says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

You look like an older me! (I'm not the one in the picture)

cheeeeeeelsea

cheeeeeeelsea says:

Posted on 29 Jul 2009

Ignore them, you are not ugly





http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/emotion/bullies.html

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 01 Aug 2009

you are GORGEOUS, honeey[;

don't let them get you dooown.

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