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missymm asked:

14 May 2009

My rents' are so overprotective. I need help?! please...

well okay, my parents dont let me go out on friday nights or ever! especially with a guy.. I'll be fifteen like in two months. They treat me like a little girl ,i guess i am but im old enough to hangout with friends..right? anything i could tell them to trust me or let me go out more often?!

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mikiya04

mikiya04 says:

Posted on 14 May 2009

you are still pretty young, but you can at least hang out with female friends. they are being protective because there are a lot of crazy people out there. i'm 23 and still get nervous in certain situations. if your parents don't know the parents of your friends, get them acquainted. get your friends to hang out at the house if they already don't. when they see your friends more often and TRUST them, you may get somewhere.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 14 May 2009

To me you are still a bit young. When I was your age I did not really go and hang out with friends that much bc then I would have to ask for a ride from my parents. It was not till I turned 16 and they got a car for me and I went out all the time. Just wait... they will lighten up.. but remember do not loose their trust in you.

lilith

lilith says:

Posted on 17 May 2009

whatever you do, do not whine to them! Try asking them nicely and calmly, and if they say no, for the first couple of times act mature about it. Just say Okay, sigh and go back to your room. It will show them that you're responsible but your still disappointed. If they continue to say no, say why you think you deserve to go out , and promise them that you'll call often to check in with them. And if they finally say yes, check in really often (i know it's a pain, but you'll build trust). Good luck! :)

tasya

tasya says:

Posted on 20 May 2009

I have rent just like that! It ccan get really annoying. Maybe tyr looking at it from their point of veiw. Keep reassuring them that you will be ok and they need to get used to you growing up.

Maybe try to prove that you are able to handle going out by your slef. I find getting good marks at school works! Sometimes you just have to show your rents in a way they can understand!:)

samigore

samigore says:

Posted on 01 Jun 2009

my dad is overprotective in about the same way.. but more on the whole sex thing..anywhoo tell them you'll call them and check in, and you'll be home in a resonible hour..gain their trust

jayne_x

jayne_x says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2009

Honey, I used to have the same problem. For starters I was'nt even allowed to start dating properly at that age, did'nt stop me tho lol. First of all, ask for more responsiblity. Once you can prove to them that you can be trusted, they should ease up on you. Although all parents are different. If you just want to hang with your girls and all, maybe ask your mom or dad for a sleepover party so they can meet your friends, and maybe even ask to orgainise it with them !:)

goodluck xo

meandcourtneywearspants

meandcourtneywearspants says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2009

Just ask them if you can go out if they pick the time you can be home. Tell them where you are going and like SamiGore said tell them you will call them and check in.

Also, if they dont trust you on where you are going, you could ask them to drive you instead of having one oof the other parents drive you. And make sure you tell them who you are going with!!! Hope I helped!!

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