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missymm asked:

07 May 2009

How do you get over a guy?

well, i really liked this guy..and we talked for about a month or two and near the end.i found out he was talking to other girls and wanted me just as a hook up. :| i cant get over him though.Help me..please?

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saya

saya says:

Posted on 07 May 2009

Music like, "Shut Up And Let Me Go", "Cold Shoulder", etc will make you feel empowered! GO EMPOWERMENT! WOO.

Yeah. And just, you know, dont talk to him, make it clear that you're pissed. You know, if you even are.

Cause that would help.

Dont hate him.

Just...Dislike? I dunno I find it helps to go through a stage of loathing before getting over a guy. Or write, or do something creative to get your feelings out there.

Creativity comes out best when you're going through suffering. :)

gee_jade

gee_jade says:

Posted on 07 May 2009

just think of it this way. he was just using you.......you were just 'another girl' to him and you souldn't blame yourself. there are plenty of fish in the sea.......you just need to catch the right one but apparently that lil poisoned fish got in the way......i'm sure there's someone else out there in the open water...............^_^:D:thumbup:

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 May 2009

i just remember when you break off with a guy burn that bridge

it won't get better

he won't change

no matter what they say

ppl can't change over night

just try try again with someone who's wourth your time

xiloveyoux

xiloveyoux says:

Posted on 07 May 2009

music is what i use as my therapy for problems.

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chanelle_121

chanelle_121 says:

Posted on 07 May 2009

i was in the same position i couldn't stop thinking about him now he wants me back and im kinda confused i like him as a friend but i dont want to get my heart broken again, anyway i finally got over him by writting down all the bad things he had done to u and keep on reminding urself that until ur convinced that he doesn't mean as much to u anymore. I mean i loved this guy and i was crazy for him and i went to the point of going anorexic he saw how much he hurt me and now i think he justs wants to get back with me to make me forgive him. He's a nice guy and is caring but when he hurts u ur scared.

i hope my personal reflection kinda helped u but always stay strong !!

xx

mikiya04

mikiya04 says:

Posted on 08 May 2009

time heals all wounds. just go out, hang out with friends, find a hobby. things that you associate with him, try to avoid. get a new friend, that doesn't have to be a boyfriend, just someone to talk to and get feelings out. you are just in a lonely time and you just need to fill that void.

don't be too down, find you again.

bree_xx

bree_xx says:

Posted on 09 May 2009

haha and to think i was in your position a year ago.... seriously dont worry about it.

Some guys are just like that. All they want is just a little bit of action and they move on.. except in my situation we dated a year b4 that and he just kept coming back for more. but i know how it feels to find out that he isnt serious about a relationship, and/or he may have lied to you just to get what he wants, and yes it does hurt.

BUT DONT WORRY about it, look for a new interest. I know it seems hard but it will eventually fade away and you will almost forget that it ever happened..

Happy new guy hunting :p

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