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misssamantha_ asked:

30 Jan 2010

LDR Draaama!

LDR= Long Distance Relationship. & Btw, i'm almost 17, this isn't some naive tween Q.

Anyways,I met this guy online a little more than 2 weeks ago. He's from Georgia, & I'm from Louisiana. We've been talking everyday. He's sweet, albeit kinda serious, while I'm pretty goofy. He's really shy on the phone, but on text he is NOT. He calls me all these pet names (which i do not reciprocate) & is always telling me how gorgeous i am (which i don't think are lines, he's pretty genuine). Welll my only serious complaint is that he asks me for pix of myself alll the time. Once he even asked for a topless one! I went off on him, & he seemed reallly sorry. I can tell he would like to be with me, but i have a feeling the pik requests will intensify, which i'm not comfortable with. And i'd feel weird dating him if I've never met him in person. But i really like him, he's super sweet and genuine, the kinda guy I could really fall for. What should i do, ladies?!

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nana_0601

nana_0601 says:

Posted on 30 Jan 2010

Well, you can date him if you truly want to, and if you feel that he's genuine. Essentially if you both have cams, you could have a cam chat , not anything bad OH JEEZ NO D: D: , just like have a normal conversation on cam or skype or w/e if you don't already do that lol, just so you guys can get used to each other and whatnot...that's what i do with my boyfriend of over a year, and he lives in the UK whereas i'm in the states, so you have it easy :P . However :S he never asked me for topless pics before...regardless of if you end up dating him or not, he will not get pictures unless you really want to send them to him (which i hope you wouldn't want to, but you're smarter than that, i'm sure ) If he gets angry and impatient, then in all reality, he was just acting nice for the pictures, essentially playing the game until he won and got the prize of pics. :\ All in all , you should do whatever you feel most comfortable doing, and if he cant wait, then throw in some new bait, there's more fish in the sea. (oooh, that kinda rhymed lol) :D goodluck!

anbergeron

anbergeron says:

Posted on 30 Jan 2010

I've done the long-distance, the online, and the real-life things. There's nothing better than the real thing, hon. He might be super sweet, cute, honest, and the perfect catch but the reality it that you're hundreds of kilometers apart. He'll never be able to appreciate your smile, laugh, or the warmth of your skin.

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 31 Jan 2010

even if he is who he says he is (you met him online i dont care of your 47 he could still be a creeper) he is still asking to see topless pics of you so that tells you what kind of guy he is and what values/priorities he has compared to yours. he wont stop with the pics prob plus what if he is really int who he says he is and is a weirdo wanting some free porn? all im saying is be careful and dont do anything you dont feel comfortable doing

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 31 Jan 2010

sorry but girls just are so trusting because they 'love' someone you know what



you never know who you're falling for until you've been with them for a long time. most of the guys i've been with are total jerks and i've come to learn that relationships should be fun and not serious like that until you



1. have been dating face to face for a while



2. he's met your friends and family and atleast half of them approve



3. he doesn't ask for dirty pictures. sorry giving a guy some sexy shot if one thing but him asking for them before you guys are even serious is a no no



sorry girls fall fast and they fall for guys they don't know enough about. you can say this is a good guy you're hearing things but really you know nothing about him or his life or his family or how he was raised. and you can't think you know anything about him cause the last thing i've learned is no matter how rational you think something is in your head for reasoning alot of people do not think like you and will not have the same feelings and thoughts as you

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