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midsummer_dreams asked:

05 Sep 2009

Self-esteem issues again

Urgh goddamit. I was doing just fine! I was starting to grow confident and all. But now i've started highschool my selfesteem has dropped AGAIN!

I never feel pretty or anything. And I hate wearing glasses. I feel like such a idiot, thinking no boy would EVER fancy me. I know i sound stupid but.. Grr and i see these absoloutely GORJUS girls at school and i feel all fucked up. Im always scared when im in school, that someone might pick on me (i was bullied before "/ thats really messed me up). I personally seem to be one of those people who attract trouble like magnet. I always feel so.. i dont know. Funny how one day can change so much. Really, i was doing totally FINE! Then my self esteem went down again! Any ideas how to feel myself again? D:

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 05 Sep 2009

I know how you feel hun. Im always in the middle of drama and giving people the wrong idea. and i feel the same way when i see all these pretty girls and guys trailing behind them and everyone liking them and stuff.



Although, if you really think about it. you cant help how you look and imo your beatiful(: My dad told me that guys really do get attracted to girls who have confidence, very smart, and who are themselves and dont try to be like everyone else. (Not saying that you are, just raising another point =P )



To build your confidence in yourself, do things that make you feel good. Like spa's...getting your hair or nails done, even just hanging out with some friends or drawing too =)



One thing i used to do when i was younger was drawing or writing my feelings down in a journal. I would put it in a spot and wouldnt tell anyone about it...but everytime i felt like i needed to talk to someone or felt bad, i would write things down.

worlds_away

worlds_away says:

Posted on 05 Sep 2009

I though you were 11? Okay. I feel the same way too. It's okay if you feel bad, everyone goes through this. Talk to a close friend ( maybe your parents?) Listen to music, draw, write in a journal, take a bath, eat ice-cream, have fun!

I'm here to talk. :)

isthereareas0nf0rmetol0vey0u

isthereareas0nf0rmetol0vey0u says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

im here for you hun!

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

in elem i was teased and called some names. in jr high and early highschool i kinda faded into the walls and noone really noticed me. but in 11th i decided who cares what people think i'll be me and i got so many friends.



it was so much better when i decided to try talking to people even if i didn't think they were in my clique. by the end of 12th everyone knew me and lots of them i considered friends.



: P and i loved my glasses i had them up until about a year ago when my exhubby set up a lasik appointment for me and i decided to go for it : P

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

Girl your gorgous so you aint got nothing to be blue about! when trouble comes your way just ignore it. that will mess with the ppl bothering you way more then if you were to give them a black eye! trust me. and plus ppl that are bullies and mean are nothing but ppl that dont feel good about themselfs so they have to pick on other ppl and try to bring them down to their level! so i think if their messing with you its just cause their jealous of you! and you'd be surpised how many guys love chicks with glasses! cause they seem more mature and smart vs girls that dont!

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

what your only 11 dnt worry about that stuff. i am 22 i think sometimes is any girl ever going to fancy me. actually thinking about i think i dnt use to feel how u do, i thinks its just life. i am sure ur going to grow up to be a gorgeous girl and have plenty of blokes fancying you by the time you go to college, so dnt worry.



if you do get bullied i am sure theres people on her you can talk to and i am one of them because i know what its like since i was bullied at school for being ginger.

iim_bby909

iim_bby909 says:

Posted on 10 Sep 2009

well 1st Off i think yur absOlOutly gOrgeOus!



&& i think that yu shOuld have lOts

Of cOnfidence! i mean lOok @@ yOu!



just smile @ yur self && act a little cOnceided

fOr a while then itll stick! hahah



in Order tO respect yurself

yu gOtta lOve yOurself!



_Cynthia

auri

auri says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

btw, if you ever feel the need to talk to someone...im here =)

midsummer_dreams

midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

i AM 11

worlds_away

worlds_away says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

Then how are you in high school?

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