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midsummer_dreams asked:

05 Sep 2009

RE: whats the worst/hardest time you\'ve ever been through and at what age?

ok i posted that question a few days ago. Thanks for all those who answered. I think i probably ought to write about my worst time too xD



Lets see. Starting off when i went to visit some relatives in asia, and my 'auntie' (dads brothers wife) started telling everyone im her daughter. first i thought it was only cos she took a liking to me, until it got serious. Then i confronted her friend asking her why she was telling everyone i was her daughter, and her friend said: You dont know? You were adopted.

At first i didn't believe her, but then like i met more of my relatives and everyone thought i already knew and talked about it openly and grr i was feeling like shit. I mean i felt like such a fool! My parents kept telling me that they were lying until it got too much and i confronted my mum and she finnally admitted she adopted me. I was glad she was being honest and didnt really feel the shock or anything. I dont blame my parents (the ones who adopted me) for not telling me it. My dad wanted to tell me when i was older, but he was so pissed to hear i found out how i did.

But then it crashed on me WHY my real 'rents gave me away. Was it cos they already had children? WTF? WHO would give their child away? My parents didnt have children btw. And now my birth mother was tryinna tell me all this, whats the point? She made it clear shes not asking me back, but whats the point of tryinna ruin my life like this? I felt so.. ugh, idk, betrayed and like a fool.

But i didnt tell anyone. Iv never brought this up infront of my dad. Then my parents had a bad fight and my mum started goin at me to 'go back to my real parents' and blah. Then i went over to my friends & stayed a few days until she came to me and apologized. But she did it quite a few times. Idk WHY my real 'rents gave me away but i cba pondering over that. i have to move on i guess.

But then my parents were going through a divorce phase

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worlds_away

worlds_away says:

Posted on 05 Sep 2009

Yesterday when I foud out I was going to be in a class with 20 mean kids. Cliques.

At least I have my sister.

auri

auri says:

Posted on 05 Sep 2009

Aww thats horrible. im happy everythings getting better, always bad before it gets better. its awesome your being strong...and it really does help you when your older(: Just remember, dont give up...and always remember there are plenty of people going through even worse times, like people with cancer etc.



I think for me, the most horrible time was when my mom left me and i had no idea where she was, like ik shes a grown women but i was scared of what she could do to herself, because of my brother's death and her husband leaving her.

Its all better now a little i guess, shes feeling better about herself and shes happy he's in a better place(:

paigee

paigee says:

Posted on 05 Sep 2009

aww i feel for you but when my nan died it was so sary i couldn't face to say good bye because like i was really close to her i was the only main one to go and see out of bout 13 gran children i loved her so much but when i tryed to like say goodbye i couldn't face up to it or i just upset my self and i still think of her and some times cry myself to sleep thinking of her i just didn't want her to go it didn't and still doesn't feel like she's gone :/ :'( R.I.P nana kitty :d ily loads





paigee

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

just remember your dad is YOUR DAD andhe LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING! that's how people love their children even if they're not technicly their's by blood.



try to stay strong and remember that. you need to know that love will always be there no matter what's going on

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

ps things can be rocky but it helps define who we are by helping us cope and move on.



the bumps make us stronger and smarter so don't be mad if you stumble and fall cause it gives you a reason to get up and try again

isthereareas0nf0rmetol0vey0u

isthereareas0nf0rmetol0vey0u says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

sad times suck...

italian_knowledge

italian_knowledge says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

Dont worry everything is going to go good, remember that ur parents love u (do not cut urself...plz dont do anything crazy like drugs and gangs and stuff...plz) And when 1 door closes another 1 opens, just think about ur future ur still young, if u think about it, nothing bad happened to u, u have amazing parents, uv been to so many places i mean asia wow. ur still young just think about the future and how u can make it really really good (make money go shopping travel find love have children being happy.....) lol :)

italian_knowledge

italian_knowledge says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

p.s the worst thing thats ever happened to me is when my parents were about to brak up, they fight a lot but this 1 was serious, my dads family doesnt like my mom so i guess my mom said something and then my dad responded to how bad her faily is.... he was going to pack to go to a hotel it was so sad but the extremely weird and sad thing was, is that i wasnt sad now that i think about my heart is like broken but then im like thats ok, i can be like zak n cody and like my friend idk if its myb cause i was in shock or something

cool_loser

cool_loser says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

Is "Blah" Like Your Word Or Something Lmbo.

midsummer_dreams

midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

Aww well im glad to hear shes alright. It must be so hard for you, with your bro and all. Im so sorry! I mean, seriously this has helped me alot (: i realised what iv been through is nothing compared to what others seem to have been through. But no one close to me has ever died so i cant say im empathize. but yes, things will work out in the end, wont they? xD

xx

midsummer_dreams

midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 06 Sep 2009

Awww im so sorry babe! Well think of it this way, atleast she had a long & happy life. And shes probably very happy in heaven :}

xx

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