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midsummer_dreams asked:

09 Aug 2009

Is this normal? & does this happen to anyone else?

okay sometimes iv noticed that i have a wierd attraction to people. Theres no pattern of what type of people. They could be white, black, ugly, pretty, nice, mean etc. Its not quite 'fancying', but its like.. iv just GOT to know em. Otherwise i go really wierd. Its like.. i see a total randum person & suddenly i feel a wierd attraction to him (its mostly boys tbh, maybe sumtimes a girl. but like i said its not fancying. cos im straight) i just wanna get to know em & be mates. ITs more like i HAVE to. Another reason i dont think its the same as fancying is cos if they fancy me back, then i'd just freak out cos thats not exactly what i want when i say 'i want to know em'. Does this happen to anyone else? cos one of my mates was like WHY YOU FLIRTIN WID THAT GUY & i tried to explain im not flirting, & i tried to explain bout this 'attraction' but she just woudnt believe me. It doesnt happen to any of my matess. Like recently, a boy (17 years old) was staying over at ours . Hes my MumNumbr2's cousin's son (so hes not related to me through blood. some of yous prolly know what im on bout if you read one of my other questions bout how i was adopted) but anyways. The moment i saw him i knew i just GOT to know him. Its not cos he was fit or anything, it was just.. idk. An attraction. I didnt relle give much notice to it but it relle sorta hurts me if i cant get to be mates wid that person. It might be a totally normal thing & yous might think im mental for fussing over it but im curios cos it dunt happen to any of me other mates.,



laneypoo says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2009

That happens to me sometimes too. if i see a guy i have to look and i want to talk to them really bad, but like i dont plan on going out with them, just an urge to talk to them. its weird.


nana_0601 says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2009

happens to me too, at the people i think are so uber cool , that i just have to know them. :D but i get shy sometimes and i just try to ignore that impulse to want to start a convo with them randomly lol


auri says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2009

yeah it happens to me too =]

Its fine to think the person is cute or w/e and its not flirting!

its human nature, and to me it just sounds like your friendly, seems your friends dont understand it, but it happens to everyone =)


barbipixi says:

Posted on 10 Aug 2009

i would say i don't have as much a drive to make friends with a total stranger unless i'm introduced to them. if i have no attachment with the person and we have no connections outside of seeing eachother once i'm not going to go out of my way ( like if i see someone in a store at the mall that i don't know). if it's at a party it will be different because i'm there to mingle. and i'm morelikely to go out there for someone i'm actually attracted too : P


cookiemonstuh says:

Posted on 10 Aug 2009

OMG that happens to me too!

like im a very friendly person, so when i see someone and they like catch my attention for some reason, ill go talk to them. idk why. i guess it just happens to people.


bubbleslovesyou says:

Posted on 10 Aug 2009

I totally know what you're talking about. (: It's like, you don't really want to be their gf or anything, you just would like to get to know them better... like I guess they seem interesting or (:


hanlou says:

Posted on 11 Aug 2009

Hormones!! Its all part of growing up!!! They make you really confused. Also apparently we all give off our own smell that attract other people to them if we like there smell we like them. Its the same as animals. look at it on the internet.


amaay says:

Posted on 13 Aug 2009

i agree with 'Hanlou' [:


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