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midsummer_dreams asked:

24 Jul 2009

i want a higher self-esteem!

ok, im VERY VERY VERY (say that a million times?) self concious & have a VERY VERY VERY low selfesteem. HELP? :(:(

i feel ugly alott. i feel like a geek (N) . everytime i see a girl whos prettyyy i start feeling all un-confident. everytime i see a fit guy, id start feeling all miserable thinking 'he'll never go for me', even if the guy is staring at me with interest! (that has happened to me bare times)

any ways on how to feel more better bout urself?

its no use telling myself im preetty, cos it doesnt really helpp. i need other ways?




amaay says:

Posted on 24 Jul 2009

girl, you are pretty, infact your not pretty, your GORGEOUS! [:

you just have to believe in yourself and love yourself. firstly, you need to know why you have no/very little self-confidence/esteem. was it something that happened in the past, or have you just not learnt/developed it yet? it's up to you to answer these questions for yourself. after you have realised why you have no self-confidence, you can take it from there[; nobody is born with these things, it just comes to you. you need to develop it;

don't view yourself as inferior to others. don't walk around with the subconscious mindset that others are better or more qualified than you.

talk about it with friends and loved ones. wear it on your sleeve. each day you should chip away at it; wear it down. there's no quick fix.

remember that no one is perfect. even the most confident people have insecurities. at some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. that is reality.

identify your successes. everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents.

and finally, be thankful for what you have and be positive! [:



myradiosayslala says:

Posted on 24 Jul 2009

same problem here sweety , i really have a LOWWW self esteem , i also feel very unconfortable when i see girls who are gorgeous..

but i'm starting to get over it

this may sound very stupid , but try to compliment yourself alot while watching in the mirror, take pictures and look at them , stare in front of you dont look at what others say or do ...

btw i think you are verrrryyyy pretty !!!!




rachelsauras says:

Posted on 24 Jul 2009

just about every girl on here has low self-esteem.

although you have no reason for it.

you're gorgeous.

honestly, I bet those "pretty girls" are looking at you

and thinking the same thing.

lose a bit of weigh, get a new haircut, buy yourself something, or changing up your makeup can make you

feel a lot better about yourself.

get rid of the people putting you down,

or making you feel bad about yourself in life.

admire your good qualities instead of dwelling on

your not so good ones.

take compliments to heart.

no one but you can make yourself believe

that you're pretty, or amazing.



shinja says:

Posted on 24 Jul 2009


p3b3 says:

Posted on 24 Jul 2009

I agree with all these gals. I came on here expecting to find some monster that wud give shrek a run for his money but im dissappointed (in a gd way)..You're not pretty or gorgeous, YOU'RE STUNNING. but if u reli wanna feel it,get in ur room and lock ur door, get ur ipod out, stand in front of ur mirror,slap on the shortest outfit yu got and bust some moves that'll have the pussycat dolls walking around with brown bags over their heads( it doesnt matter if u cant dance, jus pretend like u can cz no 1 is watching) just lose urself for a while and wen u come back, you wont remember who u were... xxx


barbipixi says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

well if you act more confident (even if you don't believe it yourself) others start treating you differetnly and that actually helps you feel more confident

don't look down at your feet when you walk, make an effort to look up and at people and smile

you'll get smiles back even from strangers and it makes me feel good : P


cheeeeeeelsea says:

Posted on 29 Jul 2009

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