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midsummer_dreams asked:

25 Jul 2009

HELPP MEE D:

I'm basically gonna post my whole life story on here, so I need patience from you.

Right, lately my mum has been a real bitch to me. Shouting and swearing at me @ almost everythingg. Shes been treating me likea little servant (no exagerrations) . Im not gonna go into details but anyways, my dad finally got sick of her being like this to me & asked her what her prob was. She got mad & started screaming & fighting &.. well lets say the night ended badly and in the end she blamed ME.



This morning i went upto hug her (even though none of it really was my fault) & she tells me that i'v been adpoted as a child & shes not really my mother & she doesnt want me anymore. 'Kay, so i've known iv been adopted for a year now (found out in the sickest way imaginable) but i took it very calmly. My real 'rents are actually my 'auntie and uncle' and they gave me away cos my other parents (Shall we call them 'RentsNumber2?) didnt have any kids . My real parents already has 3, so they, after a time, gave me to my 'RentsNumber2. They all lived in Asia at the time, btw. Untill we moved to manchester, i used to be sometimes in my real 'rents house & sometimes in my other parents house (yes, like a fucking parcel).

i didn't even let it get to me i was adopted until my mum just said this to me. She doesnt want me anymore? WTH?

I seriously feel so.. oh i dont know. FUCKED UP.

Now she's saying shes going back to Asia to her parents and Im going to stay here with my dad. Like.. WTH?

Help. I've been crying for two days now. & Everytime she seems me shes like ARE YOU HAPPY NOW YOU MADE ME & UR DAD FIGHT?

How did I make em fight? She started it cos of all her work tension. She was shouting at me all the time it was getting sick!

What should i do? what if she really does go away, how will i cope? I really don't know what to do. Think her & my dad (RentsNum2) are gonna get a divorce now.

& my dad prolly cant take care of me. He loves me & trust me, i know how much he loves me.. He would kill my mum if he founds out the shit shes been saying.. but still, im in a growing up phase & it would be really hard for him to manage me & i'll end up going to Asia too to my real 'rents! I really dont wanna go though! i like manchester, dont wanna leave my friends & esp not go back to my 'family' & most esp i dont wanna leave my dad here on his own.



HELP me! I really dont know what to do!

Sometimes i just feel like.. running away? From all of this..

What should i do before i literally snap?

Answers

reverie_09

reverie_09 says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

Wow, well I can't say that I could ever relate to you and your life seems very hard right now. Could you try and compramise that you could go and live with your real 'rents? There is lots of help from the British social services, and it might be hard that you go into care (which is always a last resort) but if you end up with your Dad, social services will help with everything and they won't just take you away you know. They are there to help.

I wish you all the best, feel free to message me if you want to talk any time. Don't run away please. It'll be okay, everything will work out. Then when you're older you will be able to look back and see how it will make you a far stronger person. Everything happens for a reason darling. I hope it works out for you, xxx

_ana_96

_ana_96 says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

wow i'm sorry i don't really know what to say ut i'll try. obiosly i can'tsay i know how you feel cuz i don't but trust me don't run away pleaze!! it'll just make things worse! don't worry i bet things will get better and you can message me anytime you want.

dominique

dominique says:

Posted on 25 Jul 2009

wow. my mom shouts and screams and throws stuff at me. but im not adopted... idk what to tell u. im soo sorry. but youll make it. try to stay focused of positive things. i dont kno what to tell u im sorry..

cookiemonstuh

cookiemonstuh says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

idk what to tell you....ive never expierienced anything like that. i would talk to your rents number 2 dad...he seems to really care about you. and hey look at the brightside! atleast you hava a dad that really seems to care about you. thats a good father right thur(:

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

Sorry to hear that your mother is in a really bad mood and treating you really badly. I think there is something else going on that you are not aware of... maybe your mom and dad are not having a good relationship and all she can do is just blame you b/c you are the closest person to her and she knows that you will not attack back. She could be just lashing out at you b/c there might be something else going on in the family that you are not aware of. Do not blame yourself about what she is saying to you. I know the words can be harsh. Wait it out a little or just go ask you dad....ask him what is happening and why is she so angry?

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

well first focus on you love your dad so we're going to do what it takes to keep atleast that happy family together.



you apperently are the most important thing and i'm sure the stress of not having a child finally got to your rent2 mom



i know you deep down care about your rent2 mom but just stop any contact with her besids treating her like a neighbor. she apperent' can't handle the situation and need's some help in her head that you can't give her



and you're dad will be able to get on foodstamps and how old are you? you could get a job babysitting if you put up a flyer at the corner store but have him come over to the home to check it out with you.



you can get through this. i'm recently divorced, and i have a wonderful new boyfriend and he got fired because he was my boss, and we've found ways to stay together and support ourlifestyle and i have a 2yr old baby girl (whom i love like crazy) her dad is just now starting to send me child support. and yea if your dad2 has you and they do get a divorce he could potentally get child support too from your mom2



america is not a bad place to be a single parent and there are TONS of programs out there for helping people who think they may not be able to make it, including free health care and foodstamps

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2009

My dad trew me out and the I moved to my moms house and he changed his mind. Then my mom kicked me out 7 times and then changed her mind again. In the end she strangled me and I moved back to my dad.



Soo I know how it feels to be unwanted. Anyway, if I were you I would just let her unreal mom do what she wants, she isn't good for you and you will feel alot better after she is gone for good.



Then about your dads money problem, if I were you I would get a part time job so you can earn your own money to clothes and that kind of stuff and then try not get into trouble. If your money problem is VERY bad you could give the money you earn to your dad, or give some of them.

But I am almost sure that your dad can handle the food and the rent if you take care of most of your own stuff. :-s

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 01 Aug 2009

'BarbiPiXi' is right[;

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