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midsummer_dreams asked:

17 Sep 2009

Has anyone ever tried \'saving\' themselves for marriage?

im just wonderin cos loadsa people i wanna know want to have sex after marriage, to make it more special. Has anyone else ever done this (and succeeded lol).

sorry i ask strange questions, im just too curious all the timee ;D oops i meant to say: alot of people i know. (not people i WANT to know.)

my grammars fucked up right now, sorry (:



hanlou says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

i always said this but then gave in to pier pressure i know bad!!!!!!

But now i only have sex with people if they have been with me more then six months and i know they love me and i love them and feel like we will marry.


nana_0601 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

kinda, sorta, see. I may be one of the few 18 year olds that haven't had sex yet ,YEAH! wh000!! but with my boyfriend, we've been together for over a year now, well it makes things interesting. He lives in the UK so it's long distace, and i'm not going to the UK until post graduate studies so in 4 more years, and if our relationship can withstand distance and whatnot, we might as well get married and have sex =\ lol. (to be honest, we've already thought of names :P but we play around for the most part about that stuff, but we're so comfortable around each other we can do that.) sooo...yes I am, but no not really. :D


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

Im saving myself! I know i will never regret it but i will regret if i dont wait. I know lots of couples who have made it and they say waiting is the best thing every cause its so much more special that way! and 90% of the ppl i know that have done before marriage say they wish they had waited and they tell me to wait no matter what! so i am:) plus i promised myself, my parents and God that i would so i am:)


auri says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

Well im not quite that age yet for marriage, but most def.!


jessd says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

well of course im too young for any of that stuff. but i want to wait.. some girls in my school are talking about how they want to give a guy and blowjob and some already did.. haha i think thats nasty. and i realy want to wait until im married..


simplistic_design says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

Now that I look back at all the girls in my high school and such having sex, they all ended up getting the reputation as a slut. I ignored them no matter how I was called a prude. I DID NOT wait til I was married, and oddly I don't think people should. Around 19 EVERYONE wanted me for that reason, like I was a better woman than all the girls I knew. Avoid letting the guys turn it into a competition. Don't let it be on ANYONE else terms. You hold your virginity you kinda hold a lot more power really. And once given away it seems easier to hand out. Make it on your terms when your ready. Not when you think your in love, but when you think this is the guy I want to give it to. Virginity is a concept. The hymen is real, but the holy/purified thing really isn't there. It is just an act that affects in other ways.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

i have a friend that is 23 this year and she's in med school and has plenty of friends but only a few boyfriends and she is still a virgin

i thought about it and so did my friend from highschool but we both gave in after school.

it's good to wait atleast until you're old enough to handel the concequences.

if something happens you could get preggers

are you old enough to handel that?

if something happens you could get an std

are you secure enough to talk to someone about that?

if you do get preggers

with the boy be there for you to care for your child as well?

most young people can't say yes to those things.

so i think it's a nice idea of waiting until marriage but i think it makes more sence to wait until you're in a serious relationship that is going toward marriage cause you don't want to marry someone who can't please you in bed


glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

nope i didnt save myself....


hayley___hamm says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

i want to safe myself :)


blondie_91 says:

Posted on 22 Sep 2009

I didn't wait but in the end its the persons choice if they wanna save themselves until marriage. I know plenty of people who have remained a virgin and are a lot oler than me. i don't think people should get their knickers in a twist over this topic again everyone has different views and religions which impact this decision. I admire people who can hold out and find a person that aint just using you for sex at least if the is a virgin it shows the partner is in it for the long run


billieprox says:

Posted on 12 Oct 2009

i'm saving myself


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

"don't want to marry someone who can't please you in bed ?" I think thats kinda shallow if your marrying for the sex. If your not marrying that person because of who they but for how good in bed they can be then you can bet that, that marriage will fail. marriage goes beyond all the lust and physical attraction for that person, because we all lose all that someday! so when its gone that means your marriage is gone too? See that’s not what marriage is about. Its about you wanting to belong to that person and they to you, for the rest of their lives no matter how good they are or look.


hanlou says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

BethanyJL I can see your point of view, but I am sorry i agree with barbipixi.

Sex is a big part of a relationship, it brings you closer to that person in a way i cant explain, You cant truly love someone untill you make love to them. You have to be sexually compatible as well as mentaly and physically. In my opinion you should have sex before marriage to learn. If you do not have sex before marriage the day u marry, the ni9ght you have sex will be so dissapointing because it wont feel nice it will hurt more then anything and it deffinatly wont be special.


hanlou says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

also my best friend her mum ana dad saved it untill they where married but in the end split because they had only been with eachother


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

Nope. sorry i still think its shallow and wrong to base your relationship on sex! sex should be a blessing you get to have with your spouse but NOT the reason you are with your spouse! You should base your marriage off of your love for that person and not lust.

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