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midsummer_dreams asked:

13 Jun 2009

dreamsss, (n)


so iv always wanted to be sumthing creative

like a singer or model or actor

but see, my parents are the completely opposite

my dad wants me to be a feckin barister/lawyer

& mum wants me to be idk.. a docter? accountnt?

when i have NO interests in those things..

& i cant even discuss wid them what I want.

they never listen.. i mean.. its MY life ffs! why should THEY decide for me? i dont WANT a hell lot of money or anything ffs, if thats what theyr getting at (prolly are).

they just ignore me if i say i want to do this & that. i mean, you should see my reports at school. its clear im gifted at singing/dancing & shiz... but they ignore that.. i mean.. how can i be sumthing i have no interest in FFS!?

im very determined in what i wanna be .. but see.. its hard doing it all on my own.. its relle annoying..doing evrything wid no one boosting u up .. & i feel like... yano, im all alone in this shiz & this RELLE stresses me out.

& if i moan to them that i wanna be this they either ignore me or say GO AHEAD, DO WHATEVER YOU WANT (which basically means: 'your young & your gonna change your mind but yopur still gonna be what WE wnt you to be)

relle. this RELLE stresses me out. i start crying randumly.. i mean, i c other girls in class whos parnts support em in evrything & boost em up about singing & shiz.. but mine? TOTAL opposite

im SICK of this!



kelly_goo says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2009



just carry on showing determination towards you dream

and eventually, your parents will take notice in this and see how serious you are about it.


tasya says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2009


I know how you feel. My 'rents want me to be something to do with medicine but you can see that I really dont get the stuff. Anyway I am really into acting and stuff and I was lucky enough to persuade my mum into letting me audition into an acting/modelling agency. but she laughs when I see something hopeful.

All you gotta do is tell them that you can be someone you want rather than live a life of misery doing somethin you hate.

Also telling them that acting/drama/singing lessons on a resumé can be very appealing for coledge application thingies so yeah

Hope it help!!:thumbup:


undeadxprincess says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2009

Sometimes life is rough. You are still young sweetheart, don't let it get to you, let them say whatever they're gunna say, every parent wants their children to be rich and crap, most times it never happens. I'm sure they just want the best for you and for now, appreciate what they are trying to do even though it annoys the crap out of you. Just go through your schooling like you normally do and then when you are in highschool and going to fill our your college applications, then you can do whatever because you are the one going to school, and i'm sure when you older your opinion will count more to your parents. I know because that's how it is for me, it took me a few visits to a councelor and seeing my dad cry to understand it, and i know they just want the best for you, just give them time.


massacredoll says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2009

I totaly agree with kelly_goo!


amaay says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2009

'kelly_goo' is right. just keep heading towards your dream and then your parents will realise that they're are not going to make you change your mind. :]



mandie_monsterhxc says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2009

kelly_goo has my vote. good luck:thumbup:


ctl888 says:

Posted on 14 Jun 2009

Are you in college now? I was also pushed by my parents to become a pharmacist. I showed them that I could make it and I into pharmacy school. but i really was not interested in becoming a pharmacist at all. They later noticed I was not happy and I told them, so I dropped out and now I am doing what I really love.

So what I am saying is that your parents maybe giving you some suggestions... Maybe you should give them a try before you completely dismissing some career choices. Just so that your parents know that you did try or at least gave it some consideration. Singing is an awesome talent! But I know the industry is a difficult one to get into. Never give up on your passion. Have you already looked into or done some modeling yet?

* what worked best for me when talking to my parents about what I wanted to do was, if I told them I was open minded to their suggestions about careers that they should also support me in my hobbies. Then you can continue singing and they will support you...till you become a professional singer! Good Luck... its rough i know.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 14 Jun 2009

truthfully it's how alot of parents are so don't feel alone

but remember it really is your life. and once you get out of school get your own life started

if you don't want to go to college that's fine they're gonna fuss about it sure but if you have a job and move out what are they going to do? ground you?

you'll be 18! you'll be a legal adult if you want to be a burger flipper and paint all day's on your off days and try to sell your paintings by god you'll be able to

so don't fret. just be good at what you do. don't rock the boat because it is their house and you are basicly living off your parents. show them love and respect but when you can take care of yourself just remember you have to do what feels right by you not them

and you'll have all the control

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