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midsummer_dreams asked:

16 Jun 2009

DAMN THIS :@

im onlyy 11 & my parents are overthetop strict about clothing.. they thinkk becoz iv started periods im 'old' now (well, yano what i mean ? ) & that i shud cover up a littlee.. &+ its also bcause of theirr religeon. well I dont follow the same religeon as THEM. actually, i dont have any religeon.. but yeah anyways.. they dont even lemme wear skirtss anymore! i feel like suchaa freak at school wearin tights when its burning hot!!



&+ gawd... i hate my parents! have you everr SEEN anyone doing modelling & shiz in full clothes? (thats my ambition XD)



theres no way i can talk sense into them. but is there any way i can wear w/e i want widout them goin banananananas?



:'( i forgot to add.

this stresses me out so much iv even considered running away +& i might even do that . i act before i think.

if i get messed up, i can go a little crazy &+ i'll prolly end up running away

(then gettin kidnapped :/)

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barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Jun 2009

well that's a good reason to not run away though



but i would suggest talking to a counciler at school and maybe they can set something up with your parents



i know i never minded wearing skirts with dark colored pantyhoes.



and if it's their religion it's really hard to say anything to that. but also talk to their priest. that actually can help because sometimes he'll tell them about adding too many rules can be a stressful thing for a kid and if you haven't done anything to make them think dressing a certain way is bad y would they think making you dress their way is really changing anything you would do?



all you can do is try to talk it out. but don't rock the boat too much they do love you they just don't want other people to see you as a woman yet they're not ready but they need to know limits are fine when you are living in their house but they don't need to smother you.



you have to have some freedoms or you could snap : P

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 17 Jun 2009

just try and talk them out of this, or maybe you could start to understand why they are doing, what they are doing. because they only want to protect you, there will be children out there who wished they had parents like yours, who cared and looked out for them. :]

just try to understand there train of thought and go along with it until you are actually old enough to dress yourself suitably, (if thats the case?)

also if you dressed like you want to, but showed too much the someting bad could happen to you when you're out and about (if you know what i mean.) :]

just try and do what they want you to do and talk them through it and then, they may start to understand why you want to wear, what you want to wear. ;]

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teeniewoo88

teeniewoo88 says:

Posted on 17 Jun 2009

First off, I think you're to young to even be on the internet. Your parents know whats best for you, trust me, I've learned the hard way. Saying you hate your parents is harsh, you'll find out one day why they do what they do. Saying you're going to run away is called, wanting attention. Maybe if you grow up a little, they might let you do more things that you want to do. You have to prove to them first. I know I sound like i'm preaching, but you'll realize it when you're older. You might thank them one day, for not having old, nasty dirty men trying to look up your skirt, which is SO important to you. Who cares what models wear, are you only wanting to wear those kinds of clothes, because you want to be like them? Be yourself. Who cares what "models" are wearing, you're ELEVEN! You arn't even a teenager yet! Worry about more important things! For real.

mcspanky

mcspanky says:

Posted on 17 Jun 2009

they are just trying to protect you!!!

if an older man saw you showing legs and lots of skin he could try to hurt you!!

when you grow up and have chidren you'll understand!!

you shouldnt hate your parents!!you know theres some kids who WISH they had parents to care for them like YOURS!!!

you should be thankful that they care for you!!

violetvibez

violetvibez says:

Posted on 20 Jun 2009

Running away isn't an option. Please don't take that the wrong way. Let me explain. So you may hate your parents but they provide food, shelter and, [suckish] clothes. They may suck but atleast you have them. Im 12 and I have rlly never had that problem but I know where you are coming form. If they don't listen to you just tell them that sice you started your period yo "are" older and so you should beable to express yourself



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