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Maya Sana Lola




07 Jul 1991


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mawfi asked:

08 Mar 2011

Hehey, I want some opinions about being friends with your ex, when in an relationship.

This x, it was five months in the winter four years ago. 1 hour apart in distance. We were 14.. It ended sudden because he "had so much going on". Personal I think. I didn't do much to save it, I didn't know I could. We we're supposed to be friends..I thought he changed, and I disliked it. So the contact faded. A few times after we briefed talked over internet, longer time apart. He took contact the last times, and apparently asked my past best friend how I was doing sometimes.Before last christmas, I contacted him, stupid party downlike. We talked for some time, it felt ok. I wanted to have answers and see if it was any friendship material.. After a time he didn't know if he could. He was going to think about it and let me know. Now four months later I got a text saying "okay, I want to have contact with you, getting to know who you are now :) "

+ It suprised me, and now I'm planning to meet him to do what I though about earlier. answers and see if it was any friendship material.. Theres another thing to take to mind, I've got a boyfriend, like over a year. I don't know if I should break it to him that I maybe want to be friends with my ex.Should I let it "grow onto him" that it's okay? By having a little contact with him while he knows. When I'm meeting the x I don't want to tell my bf, like if it doesn't evolve into friendship or anything, I don't want to let him worry for no reason.. I just want to talk and find some things out. My bf weren't so happy when my x contacted me, tho I didn't tell him I took the contact last time.. I was out a night, for fun, didn't know he would answer..
I'm afraid he will misunderstand to fast. I'm in a good steady relationship, nothing to say about that. I've got no intentions on cheating.

Thanks for answers (:



mistress1209 says:

Posted on 08 Mar 2011

That's quite a touchy issue right there... You know, generally, it's not a good idea to be close friends with an ex, let alone be in constant contact with him behind your boyfriend's back.There's just too much risk involved. Admit it or not, an ex has this certain allure simply because you used to be emotionally attached to him and anything can possibly develop from it. Good or bad, it depends. Though it would not be fair for the person you are currently in a relationship with. what I'm saying is that your ex can be more of an acquaintance rather than a friend. It just has to be to a certain extent. Unless, you feel's time to sort things out and make up your mind.

Hope I've helped.

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