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matson asked:

17 Sep 2009

my ex's best friend

i love him.. but we have been friends since i started going out wif my ex.. we arent good friends.. but friends that talk on msn alot and talk deep conversations with.. alot ov ppl have told me to stop chasing him coz hes a playa... but i cant help myself.. i wanaa be wif him but theres alot ov things in my way:

- hes always got a girl he likes and 'backup girls'

- my ex is his best frend and they r realy close

- he likes mostly blondes

- he is frends wif other girls.. im probably just another one of his 'mates'

- he is a playa

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bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

Then girl why bother with him? hes jsut goin to use you and then break your heart when hes done and not give a care! you deserve somebody that actually likes you and only you! my advice is to drop him like a hot potato and find somebody better! plenty of guys out there:)

hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

I think every1 wants him because he is a bad boy. For some reason bad boys are the most attractive lol. I also think you want him so bad because you think you cant have him. when you do get him he wont be that attractive anymore because you dont need to try and the game will be over, it will be like boring. I think your best keeping those deep conversations with him and getting closer to him that way, because if you have these conversations it means he trusts you more then any other girl this will pay off in the future because when he has a girlfriend he will always come running back to you for advice and tell you all his secrets which means your closer to him then his girlfriend. He will some realize who he is better with.

crazy_izzi

crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

HE IS NOT WORTH THE TROUBLE

c'ome on he is a PLAYER i like a player but he is only nice to watch from the far

he WILL break ur heart

drop him

there is a guy who will love u and ONLY YOU

just be urself ask his gf how he is to her

and if he is a nice person

in a relationship

ox

izzi

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2009

Ahhh, You should not chase after your ex's best friend... that should say it all! How would you feel if your ex started dating your best friend?!?! Ahhh kinda gross huh? I donno, my friends and I have a rule that we would never date anyone's past boyfriends. it is just wierd.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

omg i could see past the ex's best bud because i've done that but i can't look past you wanting a guy who is a KNOWN player and has girls on 'BACKUP"



that's just wrong. you will NEVER be able to have the heart of a guy who knows he can just go to hiis BACKUP when anything isn't going his way with you



i've had a guy with one of those as well and the only reason i was with him is becasue he was sweet i'll give him that but i had low selfesteem and i believed it was ok as long as i was girl #1



but you know what i respect myself and i realized there would be a guy out there that would love me as much as i loved him and we would be there wanting eachother not needing a 3rd wheel



don't be disrespected like that. don't sink low enough to be with a guy (as i said players are usually really cool, sweet, nice guys) but they can't respect girls casue they can't dedicate their attention toward keeping anyone but themselves happy in the end

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2009

omg i could see past the ex's best bud because i've done that but i can't look past you wanting a guy who is a KNOWN player and has girls on 'BACKUP"



that's just wrong. you will NEVER be able to have the heart of a guy who knows he can just go to hiis BACKUP when anything isn't going his way with you



i've had a guy with one of those as well and the only reason i was with him is becasue he was sweet i'll give him that but i had low selfesteem and i believed it was ok as long as i was girl #1



but you know what i respect myself and i realized there would be a guy out there that would love me as much as i loved him and we would be there wanting eachother not needing a 3rd wheel



don't be disrespected like that. don't sink low enough to be with a guy (as i said players are usually really cool, sweet, nice guys) but they can't respect girls casue they can't dedicate their attention toward keeping anyone but themselves happy in the end

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