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matson asked:

16 Jan 2012

is my boyfriend gay?

he told me that when he was young he got his first boner when he was in the shower with 2 boys. he doesnt really act gay but yeh im concerned....



veronicanelson says:

Posted on 16 Jan 2012

start paying more attention to the way he acts. there aren't really typical things gay dudes do, it's all stereotypes. but i don't think he would've told you that if he was trying to hide something. i think you should just ask him. if it turns out awkward, just laugh. that's what i suggest you do if you really want to be sure. i'm sure you can tell when he's lying so... a simple solution.


silence_ says:

Posted on 16 Jan 2012

Well, why don't you ask him?
Besides, if he told you that , that means he trusts you enough not to feel embarrassed telling you about it. Chances are , he's probably not, and worst case scenario is he's probably unsure himself, since 1. he is going out with you 2. he did tell you that . If you really want to know the truth, rather than start assuming things, it's best to confront him and ask in a concerned manner, since it is regarding your relationship between himself and yourself.

Good luck


neonsrt says:

Posted on 17 Jan 2012

I dont think it means hes gay ,he probably just had one of the most wierdest 1st moments a boy could have.And dont forget they can get "one" from random stuff lol it could have been the hot water. lol : )


renderella says:

Posted on 17 Jan 2012

Hey matson,
the good news is that he told you about that experience.
The bad news is that he told you about that experience. lol
I think it is great that he feels so comfortable with you to share that with you, but I am also
sad that he told you because he probably was just talking and didn't think too much about what that might say to you. He probably doesn't know that you are worrying over his sexuality now and to a young boy that can be pretty devastating if someone asks him about that.
Also if he was in the shower with 2 boys, maybe it was 2 friends and they were joking around about girls, or maybe they were talking about how big they are and comparing sizes (guys favorite). I would think at any age that if you're doing stuff like that you would get one.

So don't fret over it too much and just give him a lot of attention and if he tells you that he is...well at least he told you and didn't lead you on for forever.


lexilu124 says:

Posted on 26 Oct 2012

I don't think so because I mean everyone has a time in their life when they are a little bisexual but I mean what's wrong with that everyone has to find there type of people and find out who they really are but maybe you could bring it up like just say
"Have you EVER had the feeling that you like the different gender" and don't be so serious about it ... But maybe something good will come out of it haha :)
Good Luck Matson,

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