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matson asked:

17 Dec 2009

Can anyone help me stop lying?

whenever i am with my friends or my bf i always seem to stretch the truth about what im talking about, when i am telling someone something it all seems fine coz they r listening and stuff but sometimes i get overboard and stretch the truth so much that it just turns into lies. I really dont like myself for doing this and it will probably screw up some of my friendships so i wana know how to be a nice, honest person who isnt a bitch.

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fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 18 Dec 2009

im the same way girl-then my bf gets really mad because hes like too honest-(he'll tell you you look fat in the dress). truthfully, even stretching the truth is lying and everyone does it sometimes but it doesnt make it right. Sometimes you prob dont even know youre doing it..at least this is what happens to me. i've had to force myself to make a change then make a conscious effort to not lie. it doesnt stop me every time but i'm hoping the more i remind myself to not do it then easier it will get to only tell the truth. also, when its a straight up lie and it could hurt someone or fall back on me, i go to the person i told and tell them the truth and im sorry for not before. or at least telling someone what i did so it keeps me accountable and makes me really not want to do it again

xjay_jayxx

xjay_jayxx says:

Posted on 18 Dec 2009

I have the same problem!

I'm just forcing myself to make a change, and it's actually been working. I kind of felt like I needed to do it to like "fit it" or what ever, but I'm actually getting along better with my friends now[: I always tell myself to not strech the truth in my head... it doesn't always work. But I'm still working at it. (;

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 20 Dec 2009

that's a moral issue girl.



it's great if you can feel good by making other people feel good or by being nice and making people smile.



i've found that i like making others happy and smile. i like dropping hints about things and letting others figure it out so they feel like it was their idea. i know it's kind of manipulating the stituation but if they don't know and it makes them happy it's not really that bad : P

chr0matica

chr0matica says:

Posted on 04 Jan 2010

if you find yourself saying something a little crazy, just be like... jk! i dunno. that would get annoying after a while, actually... just monitor yourself and try to explain something in the fewest sentences possible. that way, no room for lies. i guess i do that too sometimes, so i know how easy it is to get carried away. sometimes people lie to impress others... is that it?

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