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marinebiologist2be asked:

08 Jan 2011

he wont dump his gf

so my friend is trying to get her ex bf back and i was helping her, and being girls she gave me his number to prank text him, so i did. we became friends over the pranking, but when he found out that his ex was behind it, i told him who i was. he and i continued to talk, and talk, and talk. we would each get 3 hours of sleep each night and we had nicknames for each other by the first night. the problem is he is dating a girl right now. but what bothers me and him is that she is a very tomboy girl, which he hates. he admits to thinking im beautiful and said if he wasnt dating already hed "ask me out on the spot". so i asked him "why are u still with her?" and he said bc she is a sweet girl and he doesnt want to hurt her feelings. i dont want to be just a backup girl, but he had told me he likes me more than her, why wont he break up with her??? help!!

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megatron

megatron says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2011

Alright, I've been in this type of situation at least a few billion times, so I have a pretty adequate answer to your question. At least I hope you think so, too.
I'm going to use the term "karma" in this answer. I'm not trying to sound mean or heartless but it sounds like that this is what happened: karma.
You were supposed to be helping your friend get her ex boyfriend back. But in the end, you two ended up liking each other. Now that isn't a very nice thing to do to your friend, is it? I'm sure that really hurt her/would really hurt her if she found out that you did that to her. Therefore, karma totally pulled a B.S. move on you.
On the non karma side I could say that he's just nervous or scared about breaking up with girls and he honestly doesn't want to hurt her feelings. Trust me, guys like this exist. They aren't just lying to you. He may've not have had a lot of girlfriends in his life and isn't yet comfortable with breaking up with them.
Just give him time and, hopefully, he'll come around.

malteasers

malteasers says:

Posted on 09 Jan 2011

This happened to me before and eventually the guy dumped his girlfriend..then we hooked up for just one day til he said he didn't want another relationship and that was that.
It sucks but if he's not gonna break up with her and be with you, you're better to just stay away...or give him an ultimatum coz you can't be just waiting around for him.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 09 Jan 2011

sorry but if you want to keep things friendly between you then just keep it that. right now your flirting and that's unfair to his GF now. if he really liked you more than her he would want to date you and make it offical.

it would be disrespectful to date a girl you don't like and would you want him doing that to you? what if after you went on a few dates you found out he was talking/texting someone behind your back and telling them things like he says to you?

also is disrespectful to you to make you feel bad about having feelings for him and his response to y he can't be with you because he doesn't want to be mean to a 'sweet girl' what? does he think it's nice of him to make her think he loves her and kiss her and be with her and maybe be wanting to be with someone else the whole time!

i would be SOOOOOO mad if i was his gf. and sorry but if he does it once he'll do it twice so if he gets with you he'll be sweet and your sweet and when the new-ness wears off he'll be looking for that new girl while trying to be 'nice' to you cause your sweet : P

blue_eyed_girl8

blue_eyed_girl8 says:

Posted on 10 Jan 2011

woahhhh! is this guy really worth the worrying? i mean this is your friends ex who she says she still has feelings for, which as you said has already got another girlfriend and now he thinks he likes you more? i don't think this guy has any clue as to what he wants! please don't take this the wrong way, but there are heaps of other guys out there?! i mean, what are you getting from this relationship through the phone? he has a girlfriend and by the sounds of things likes her...but likes you more? how do you think his current girlfriend feels? how would you feel if you had a boyfriend who was doing exactly was he is doing atm? good relationships are built on trust.

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