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makeupkid asked:

16 Jul 2010

Friend probelms..

Okay so I've my bestfriend and then another one of my close enough friends! And the friend that I'm close enough with is like obsessed with my bestfriend and my bestfriend is like obsessed with her. And these days I'm so bored and then i find out they've been together for the whole day. Its because my close enough friend always asks my bestfriend places and not me. And if i was ever in trouble or anything my close enough friend would never help me out but I'd help her out, she'd never txt me but I'd txt her and I'm just sick of being left out by her and sick of her getting me down. I treat her so well but yet she treats me back bad. I'm sick of being disrespected and not cared about!! I've said it to both of them but she still does it. My bestfriend is nice to me though. What can i do? Do i just ignore my close enough friend or what? Coz I've said it to her but nothing has changed.

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jwlover4ev

jwlover4ev says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2010

Have you said to the close enough friend, "hey, I feel left out because you spend all your time with bestfriend and none at all with me. I've tried telling you this before. I've tried being a friend to you but you are not being one back. So if you want to continue being my friend you better start treating me like one. And if you don't, well, I'm not going to be your friend any more." You have to put that, I Won't Be Your Friend Anymore, thing out there. Although you might want to talk to bestfriend about this before you actually tell her so you don't risk your friendship with them.



hope I helped! And I hope this all works out!

shesallsmiles

shesallsmiles says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2010

does the other girl not like you, or something? that might be the reason your bestfriend isnt inviting you places they're going together, maybe to avoid the awkwardness or something. but that still doesnt mean it's right of her to treat you like she is, since you guys are best friends. i think maybe you should sit her down and talk to her one on one and tell her exactly how you're feeling and why you're feeling that way. and after you try talking to her and she still treats you the same way, i'd say that it's time for you to move on and maybe start hanging out with other people. you shouldn't be giving all of the effort in the friendship, because everyone deserves better than that.

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2010

It seems like this friend might be a "fake friend". I would suggest totally ignoring her and just hanging with your best friend. If she is truly your friend (it might take awhile) she will txt you or ask you to hang out if you pretend she dosen't exsist. Give her a taste of her own medicine. :)

omfg_megan

omfg_megan says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2010

How about asking the girl that's nice to you to hang out and not invite the other girl that's not being nice to you? Also, I wouldn't talk to the person that's not being nice to you..I'd just completely cut her out of the picture.

drama_queen

drama_queen says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2010

this friend sounds alot like a girl i now and i told my bff i could not stand this drama no more and then me and my bff went out to talk to hear and she started to be nice

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