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makeupkid asked:

04 Aug 2010


Okay so this guy asked me out and i kinda had to say Yeah but not sure if i wana. i dont know why .. maybe because it's my first bf? But i've never seen him during the day, like only on nights out or when there's a big group of ppl so we're gona have to meet up just the two of us and i feel sick everytime i think of that. I know it sounds wierd but i think its coz it'll be awkward or something, what can i do?? And also i dont think il be committed enough! But i'm so nervous and not sure if i like him that much :/ what to do!!



cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2010

Just go with him and act like you're friends... If you want it!! If you don't want it don't go there... No one's forcing you... Be sure that you like him and what's the rush??

If you go... Be yourself and see what he wants and how you have to act... If you don't like him act friendly and let him know that he's not the one to be your boyfriend...Anyway I don't have any experience in this stuff but someone'll know exactly what you should do... lol



elizrockz says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2010

if you don't really know what to do, or you have a nervous or anxious feeling, i would say no. because (i don't know how old you are) if you're in middle school, don't make an effort for someone who you don't really care about. but if you say no, break it to him'll feel better saying no if you are that scared of saying yes.


vampkisses says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2010

well if you dont like him, i would tell him no. i was that was with my first bf, nervous, anxious, and awkward haha. if you dont know if you like him or what to do, i would say go on a date to like the movies(maybe bring one or two of his friends and yours), its aalot less awkward andif you have fun on the first date and like him then keep going out with him, but if you still dont like him tell him that its not working out. be confident:)


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2010

so i guess you're not comfortable with the whole thing.. just say no (nicely). or at the very least, both of you agree on going out with 2 other friends to make the situation easier. do some small talk and see if it's getting less awkward. still unsure? don't push through.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2010

it is ok to say 'i don't think i'll be able to go'

or just pull the parent card if you're a lil chicken 'my parent's didn't like the idea of me going on a date at this age"

but if you decide you do want to try it then just get a friend to go with and do something like see a movie or go hang out at walmart (that's what i did on my first date the 3 of us just ran around walmart all afternoon lol)


drama_queen says:

Posted on 06 Aug 2010

i would just hang out with him first and like they said if ustill dont feel ok about it ask if its ok if u bring a friend with u my parents wont let me go anywhere with just a guy


amberreed95 says:

Posted on 25 Mar 2011

Ok ur making it sound like ur having sex with him when u meet him alone. Im thinking u might be thinking this because ur afraid of what might happen so ur attracted to him but maybe not his personality because u said ur not sure. If u ever doubt if u like it guy it probably means u dont care but u care enough to stay with them. u shouldnt date people because ur forced to say yes or ur dared to cuz in the long run u both get hurt. If u still want to be with him go for it but being alone with him should be the same as if ur hanging out with ur friends only they arnt there. I may feel ackward but ur boyfriend is the one ur supposed to be the most comfortable with

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