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Maggie Belle




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maggiie asked:

12 Jan 2012

I'm scared? :O.

I honestly think I'm attracted to girls. Just some though. Like, I have no one I can talk to this about. My one best friend would judge the fuck out of me if I told her, the one I don't feel comfortable about telling, and the third one, I don't know how to tell. Could anyone give me any ideas of how to tell them that I am? I mean, it sucks hiding things from them as it is. But yeah. Just help?



brittanylynnfleiger says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

If your friends don't understand when yu tell them, they weren't real friends in the first place. Your friends should love you even though you are different then them. If they don't understand, then they aren't even worth your time! Tell them anyway you want.


vampkisses says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

hmm... well, most girs go through a phase of likeing a girl or two but thats mostly because they like, (im not sure how to describe it) look up to them? they want to be like them and it sort of develops a crush... If your are positive you like girls, then thats when you tell your friends... i would suggest doing it through a text or something because that would be less awkward for you and your friends... i personally dont see a problem with it at all but if your friends do are they really true friends? if they would judge you like that? If i were you i would send the atext saing 'i think i like girls' simple as that and if they accept you, awesome (: if they dont... think about who your true friends are... also think about if you want other people ti know, because more then likely your friends will tell other people... Goodluck!


livelaughlove104 says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

My advice would be to ask your true best friend what she thinks about girls liking girls. If she judges that in any sort of way you know she isnt ready to handle the truth yet. But when she gets more mature she will realize its a life style. If you think she is ready or jusst need to let it out, tell her. At least it is getting it out! so many people are bi and a lesbian you cant help your feelings. The last thing i have to say is that make sure you like girls first because people wont believe you and make sure your not just following a crowd.


jackie_walsh says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Well, first of all, you're not definitely sure you're gay yet. So there's no need to say anything until you're sure. Have you ever like kissed a girl or gone on a date or is it just crushes? So, just give your feelings a chance to develop.

But if you do like girls, so what? That's who you are and you're not going to change. We are all meant to love someone whether of the same or the other gender, so there's nothing wrong with that. So once you're really sure, you just have to sit down with your friends one-on-one (you could do it together if you prefer, but it might be easier one-on-one) and tell them calmly something like: "Hey, you know you're a special friend and I want to tell you something important. I like girls, not boys. I've not said anything until I was sure, but now I am. And since we're BFFs I wanted you to know."

My guess is they'll accept you. After all, you're the same person you were before you told them. All the other things about you that made them want 2 be friends are still there.And it's possible that they might even have suspected. But if any of them get judgmental and stuff, then they weren't good friends anyway.

Don't worry.I know It's hard, but you'll get through it.


mylovestar says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Look, its fine, you just need to time to think about this. If you are gay ( which is absouloutly fine ) it doesnt een you are really any different to anyone else.


renderella says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Hey lady you will be just fine. I went through this stage in high school. High school! Out if all things!! I was terrified and I didn't know what to do really, but I waited to tell my friends. Turns out I like boys, but our female bodies fascinated me and I would find myself staring at ther girls, wondering their bra.size, and thinking if they were hot or not and how it would be to kiss one. I think this is a very normal thing to go through. After realizing I wasn't was when my friends started asking if I was sure because I always talked about girls and most of my friends are guys, but I am more than sure that I am straight. Although a lot of my friends in high school because bi or lesbians so they were the ones holding out.


ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Okay, well I'm going to put this as bluntly as possible...hopefully this will help. So, you think you're attracted to girls? This is actually very normal...I find girls extremely attractive, but I'm not bisexual or gay. It's called bi-curiosity, which again, is really common. Just think of it this way: Can you imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with a woman and/or having sexual relations with a woman? If the answer is yes, chances are you could be gay or bisexual. If not then, like me, you're probably bi-curious. As for your friends, if you can't come out to them, they are not true friends. If they can't accept you for yourself, then well like I said they are not very good friends. A little confusion and akwardness is normal at first, but complete rejection is unacceptable.


mimi_anetionete says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

well hunney are you sure they aren't Girl crushes ? I have some, but I'm straight as a board lol! it doesn't necessarily mean your gay. If you want to find out, sit back and think about what it would be like to kiss a girl or whatever ... or having a relationship with a girl. If it feels 100% normal, you could be onto something . If it makes you feel weird and uncomfortable, then you just have a girl crush.


dragana94 says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Like they all said,it happened pretty much everyone,and it doesn't necessarily means you are gay.Just thing about it,like Ninja_Nikki said,if you can have sex and be in relationship with a girl,then you could be gay.But if not then it's just a phase,I can say lot of girls are hot,attractive,but I don't want to be with them.And you truly friend will accept you just the way you are!


dragana94 says:

Posted on 13 Jan 2012


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