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lynseyface asked:

15 Sep 2009

Have i lost my soul or something? >.

okayy my boyfriend dan of 8 months broke up with me four days ago and im still pretty upset about it but im a bit worried in case i've like lost my soul or something because when the boy (tristan) i was with before him (about a year ago now) and I broke up I was absolutely distraight for months, I couldnt think about him without bursting into tears for about three months and up until recently when it became clear me and him could still be friends I still felt so guilty about it, partly because I broke up with him and i've only just realised that it was for a pretty pathetic reason. whereas its been four days since dan broke up with me and I still think about him ofcourse but I don't find myself unable to hold back tears :S the situation I suppose is a bit different to the previous one as dan was the one who broke up with me but we were together twice as long as me and tristan were but & I adored the hell out of both of them! so I don't really get why Im not as upset! :S gaah

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bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 15 Sep 2009

Hmmm maybe its just cause you've learned to control your emotions so you can turn off the water works this time vs the first time it happened to you. I think its just cause your more prepared this time. don't worry its normal. your soul is still there but just a lil more in control of things:) plus first loves are the hardest to let go of.

hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 15 Sep 2009

Was the first boyfriend your first love because the first love always hurts more then anything else. And also because you have been throught it once without you realizing your mind shuts down so u dont get hurt again. Its a sub-concious thing.

auri

auri says:

Posted on 15 Sep 2009

well,

you have to expect to shed a few tears and to be upset...you've gotten your heart broken. I would say do your best to hold your head high and keep going. I know how you feel in a way, but just try your best to get better =/



and just like they said, maybe you werent prepared for it...did he tell you why he did it?



srry thats all ive got =/

good luck..

x

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Sep 2009

lol it's called growing up and learing that life isn't going to end when a relationship does



you were able to finally move on after the last guy and in the back of your head you probly knew that if you weren't going to be with this guy you'll still be ok and you'll find someone else new



for most people that's how it goes you'll be able to move on and even end things by yourself instead of people breaking up with you when things seem like they're not right between you

hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 15 Sep 2009

oooppps i just put exactly the same thing as bethanyJL put, but in different words lol. I didnt read what she had put till after. lol

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