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lucymanette asked:

13 Oct 2010

Not only have I not had a boyfriend...

I've never had a crush on someone. In real life. I mean I've had "crushes" on celebrities or characters in books and things but never on anyone in my life.



Sorry, I just feel like since I'm 18 I should've had these sort of things by now.

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mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2010

you know, perhaps you're just not reaching out enough. i think you're the type who doesn't get physically attracted to guys that easily. I mean you'd probably have to get to know the person before you could actually like him. I could be wrong though.. that's just how i see it...wait, do you happen to have this sort of mental checklist of what mr. right should be? maybe that is what's subconsciously holding you back. But seriously, don't worry, you'll find yourself crushing on someone soon. You're just one of those late bloomers.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2010

i felt the same way and i figured out it was alot to do with people in books i could understand them more and get to know them better.



until i started hanging out with guys and getting to know them as friends first i wouldn't really have that attraction.



sure i can tell when someone looks attractive but i'm not really attracted to them until i get to know them and feel comfortable around them

sena95

sena95 says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2010

Well maybe it is becuz your dream guy is still lost in real life , and the guy that you will have a crush on will be very special , and you know what this means , it means when you find the person tht you were looking for , you will love him from your heart , and you wont let go of him , dont worry about it hun , you just need to wait , and always try to meet new ppl , this will help :)

crikee47

crikee47 says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2010

don't worry darling im in the same boat,,,bout to be 19 next week and i have yet to have a bf,,just don't worry about it or rush into anything,,your first love is special and should be with someone worth caring about :))

shadydragonfly

shadydragonfly says:

Posted on 17 Oct 2010

Don't worry about being a certain age and not having done something particular.

Things like boyfriends and dating come when the time is right. While celebrity crushes are normal, don't try to compare guys you know to them.

If you're having trouble meeting guys who share your interests or who interest you at all...check your social life. Where do you hang out? Who do you associate with? Do you go out at all? You can't meet people if you don't go out.

Things like that factor into who you are meeting and where you meet them.

Maybe you could try taking a class outside of school, or volunteering?

As someone who's been there, I'll leave you with this:

When you're old enough to start going to clubs and bars, be careful who you think might be prince charming. Most times, guys there are just looking for a fling.

If you're looking for something more stable and long term, I'd try meeting new people in safer environments.

There's the option of trying a dating site to meet local people. They've come a long way and don't have the negative stigma they used to have.

I met my current boyfriend on OkCupid.com and also met some new friends there, too. (They don't pay me to say that... it just worked out for me)



All that said, there's nothing wrong with being 18 and being single. Just stay true to yourself and never settle or lower your standards in order to follow the crowd or force yourself to fit in. The right person will find you when the time is right.

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