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Lorii Grace Sabatier

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lorii_grace asked:

08 Jun 2010

Why are we like this?

okay... so, I'm really stuck. there's a guy I've been interested in now for well over a year... and, I just can't reach closure. I honestly cannot get over him. It's honestly really hard to be around him, and even when I "like someone else" I don't really, the feelings are still there for him and it's obvious because being around him is SO HARD. He also just happens to be the kind of guy who has a new girlfriend every week. And he's also dated my best friend at one point.. and we've also been on and off a few times. Basically every time we get within 2 metres of each other, it cycles all over again - and then he moves on and I'm just left to deal with loose strings. I don't see him that much :/

anyway.. the problem is our issue communicating. we can talk on fb or anything like that easily, but in person.. we're never able to talk. I got mad at him one time for it.. he'll talk to everyone around me except me. Like I'm honestly shunned. Sorry.. more deets now. We have way more in common than you'd think, but honestly it's like a mental or spiritual block between us and... yeah. It makes me so mad. So here's what I'm asking... why are we like this? what's the cause? how can we get past this?

I honestly .. hm. I'm not saying "oh he's the one!! he's the one!!" But at the same time, he's definitely 'different' in the sense that the feelings are always there, even when he's a jerk, it doesn't make me lose interest it just hurts., Sorry.. more deets now. We have way more in common than you'd think, but honestly it's like a mental or spiritual block between us and... yeah. It makes me so mad. So here's what I'm asking... why are we like this? what's the cause? how can we get past this?

I honestly .. hm. I'm not saying "oh he's the one!! he's the one!!" But at the same time, he's definitely 'different' in the sense that the feelings are always there, even when he's a jerk, it doesn't make me lose interest it just hurts.

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barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

sorry but guys like that get along with everyone they're players



i had a guy i dated right out of highschool. (i didn't know he also had a a girlfriend in the millitary and one that was always a stand by)

he was sweet. we could talk about anything. he was like a friend. he wasn't controling. he would take me out to eat. he would always hold my hand and snugg on me. but if something didn't go right during the day or we had a lil fuss he would go to see the other girl the next day instead of me.



and i'll admit i went back to him a few times but that is because i didn't realize i needed more than the good stuff he was giving me i needed someone who actually respected me deep down. he acted respectful sure when he was around me but if you can run around behind someone there is no real respect going on.



and yea when i finally made up my mind that we didn't need to be together anymore i met a new guy and the old one was jealous and i knew it hurt him but i also knew who he was would never change. after a while i stopped caring if he was going to be places and i was able to move on but it did take time. and yes you will feel the same way about another guy.



i've been through this dating bit quite a bit since highschool and i've fell in love a few times and yes when you actually fall each time it's even better than the first. it's just keeping your eyes open to make sure you're truly getting what you need from the relationship.

love4beauty

love4beauty says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

Hi,



I don't know if I am wrong (sorry if i am ) , but what I feel is that guy is not interested in you , only passing time with you , sort of playing and thats causing you to go into block.



But if you wanna break barrier , just muster some extra courage and splash your feelings on him at the instant when the the block is just about to occur but remember only you can take urself out of this.



cheers , goodday. .





L4b

lorii_grace

lorii_grace says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

lol OUCH

lorii_grace

lorii_grace says:

Posted on 09 Jun 2010

THANK YOUUUU.

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