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Jane Smith




05 Jun 1984

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lookingforanswers asked:

16 Aug 2010

Need help...

**adult situtaion

I have a friend who used to date this guy (they are best friends) and then they broke up. Throughout this year things were staring to pick up for the and he had even come over to her house for a couple glasses of wine, watch some tv, and talk. Now she just found out yesterday (she saw it in the paper) that he is getting married and when she called him to say congrats she found out he is getting married in a week to a women he never told her about at all. She isn't interested in marrying him herself but we are both convinced they should not be getting married. We just have this awful feeling in the bottom of out stomachs!!! Please help...and be nice



nana_0601 says:

Posted on 16 Aug 2010

I'm not sure where your concern lies. Do you have a bad feeling about him marrying her or her marrying him? Either way all you can do is voice your opinion to the person and tell them you have a bad feeling about it all or that "they're moving too soon" . He's not obligated by no means to tell the friend who he dated EVERYTHING about his personal love life even if they are friends. Even if you feel that they shouldn't be married , it's not your choice to make, it's his, so you can only let him deal with it. Most people won't talk to ex lovers about their love life, so it was probable that he could've been dating whilst all this, which is why things picked up slowly over the course of a year. There must be a reason why he wants to marry her, so if you two feel inclined to put yourselves into his love life and search out an answer the best way is to go to him and talk it out.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 16 Aug 2010

it's not very clear to me as to why you oppose this man's marriage, aside from the "gut feeling".so he's never mentioned his bride-to-be to you or your friend, it's likely he has his reasons. otherwise, some people are just not keen on sharing details of their personal life, and that my the case with this guy. i think he knows what he's getting into, anyway. But I should say that your friend is in the position to talk to him about this, she can go ahead and do that. In a way, she was led on, after all.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Aug 2010

you have no say in that

sorry but you can choose to not be the other girl. usually when a guy is dating someone and they don't tell you about it it's because they are hoping to get you in the sack as well.

you can't make him be a different person but you can know you don't want that in your life


fathima says:

Posted on 18 Aug 2010

i agree with mistress.There might be some reasons y he didn't share the details about her. you and your friend can go to him and talk about it.

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