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Lindsay Kate Vallance

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lindseed asked:

15 Aug 2011

Problems with my boyfriend.

I've been dating this boy for over two years now, and we've been intimate for a year and a half.

But recently I haven't been wanting to do sexual things with him, but he still trys. Even when I say no. And it's starting to make me think that whenever I say no, he's always gonna keep pushing things.. to the point of like.. rape.

I still love him, and I think the lowered sexual drive is from my anti depression medicine, and from wanting to reconnect with him on an emotional level.

But what do I do about him constantly pushing me to do sexual things?

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inside_out

inside_out says:

Posted on 15 Aug 2011

I think that you should talk to him and sort things... tell him how you're feeling and that you don't want to be really sexual at this time in your life... if he really cares about you, then he'll understand and respect your wishes. If not... then maybe you need to take a break or a "time out" for a little while. You shouldn't be made to do anything you don't wanna do.
God Bless :)

a_simplegirl

a_simplegirl says:

Posted on 15 Aug 2011

Yeah, inside_out is right. :|

mechelle_abalo

mechelle_abalo says:

Posted on 15 Aug 2011

Stop going out with him where you know both of you will be tempted to romance. Date in public places like parks, mall, where there's less possibility of falling for temptation. And when the 2 of you have something personal to talk about, talk at the living room and ask for the people around to be away for a little time while you two are discussing something. Be firm when he's persistent. Make him realize that your NO is a real NO. Goodluck. xoxo

lildarebear

lildarebear says:

Posted on 23 Feb 2012

Congrats on not giving in, never let another make you do something you arent comfy with EVER. You could talk to him about it and go from there but in the end the decision is your if he doesnt respect your decision about non-sexual stuff then you have to do what you think will make you happiest

vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 17 Jun 2012

I'm with Mechelle on this one c:

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