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lily_billy asked:

14 Jan 2010

why?

almost everyday i feel like crap, im always down and dont want to do anything.. i use to draw and paint and sew every day and got out and just walked around now i dont want to do anything im always down and barely eat.. just feel ugly all the time.. i have no idea why =[

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ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 14 Jan 2010

Like how are you feeling crappy? bc of your boyfriend?..family?... school? or are you just kinda depressed in general? many of these factors can cause you to feel down and dumpy and unmotivated to do you daily things. Try to find the source of what is making you feel down. Then maybe we all can help you try to fix it...or solve the problem.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

well i would suggest trying to find friends to do things



try going to sips and strokes (that's great fun)



you need a connection. i have to call my mom and family to talk to them once i moved out i knew i'd be living my own life and i turn my bf into my best friend and we do stuff together. i also like spending my time at work with the ladies there. we usually go out to eat lunch together. also it doesn't hurt that i have a daughter that's just the right age to want to do things all the time.



sometimes i get tired and i just want to stay home but i go through burst of wanting to paint, crochet, or play videogames

runningwithscissors

runningwithscissors says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

Hey, dollface, you might wanna talk to someone.

And I'm not talking about asking a question to some random people around the world.

Like a real someone that can help.

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

sounds like your lonliness could be affecting you. if you keep thinking about teh bad things then you could be at risk for depression. you can take some practive measures and force yourself to do normal things like be around people-somehow think of ways and places you can make new friends...see if that helps. if you feel better after a night of hanging out with some poeple your own age, then that may be the problem. if not, you really need to talk to someonenot bc youre weird and have a special problem now, but bc this id what happens to people when changes happen-adjustment is so hard. i still struggle with lonliness and its actually normal to feel like that so dont be upset, just realize you gotta take charge of your life now in a different way and do extra stuff to make and keep friends and feel motivated in life

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

What made you decided to move? It seems far from family... and it is even harder if you are with your boyfriend and he is not treating you the way you want or hoped. So you do not have any girlfriends where you are? I read that you said you have met some people but they seem mean to you. Maybe you can try to single one of them out and ask if he/she will go have coffee with you. Like find a girl that seems like she would be the nicest and go have coffee and try to open up to her then maybe she can show the others that you are not so bad...

Maybe she can become someone you can confide in. I know what it is like to move away from home and know no one in the city. What I ended up doing was drive around to learn the city... I would walk the mall by myself. .. just to clear my mind and relax. I think you might want to do that... spend a day out with yourself and just think, put all your negative thoughts away and take a deep breath and think of how you can change things. Maybe set new goals for yourself. Do a little exercise every day and will boost your serotonin and dopamine levels. It is the happy stuff in our brains. Maybe take up cooking...and once you made something ..include your boyfriend and tell him what you have made...blah blah blah.. see if that makes him a little less moody. (I hate it when my boyfriend is grumpy... i straight up tell him, ' Don't be mean and let it out on me... I didn't do anything.' then he will apologize and hug me. He doesn't get grumpy much anymore so..

lily_billy

lily_billy says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

well i moved out about four months ago, family nor friends call or text me at all and if they do they need something so im alone all the time and boyfriend sometimes can be very mean but he just doesnt care ata ll..so i dont feel like doing anything.

lily_billy

lily_billy says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

i got no one..boyfriend only helps so much.. he doesnt really talk much

lily_billy

lily_billy says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

well mom doesnt want to talk to me and everyone where i live dont like me cuz they think people from california are stuck up and they are the ones who are being that way so yeah

lily_billy

lily_billy says:

Posted on 15 Jan 2010

i moved four states over and all of the people here look at me differently cuz i grew up in california so they think im stuck up but i dont think i am im always nice to them and yet they avoid me so i just stay at home the whole time and i cant find a job to take my mind off things.

lily_billy

lily_billy says:

Posted on 16 Jan 2010

well its just family problems mostly mom, she kicked me out but then got bad at me for moving out and boyfriend is kinda changing to be more sensitive.. oh yeah ive tried that they gave me their number and so we could hang out but no one ever replies and i asked my boyfriends friends whats up with that and they told me they really dont like me..

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