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krista090 asked:

07 Feb 2009

why cant i get enough guys asking me out?

i just need a couple of reasons why some people seem to get a guy ask them out every 5 minutes and others get asked out every 5 months or so?



in general i am rather shy, kinda nice, sometimes mean (but only to people who seem like meaner), pretty on somedays, not so pretty on others, but rarely ugly unless i have a cold or go out when the weather is damp as it spoils everything.



anyways what should i do to get more dates and stuff?....pls something real not the be yourself stuff because i am always myself and its not working hey!!

i guess when i posted the question i was having a bad day or something. what i actually meant was not that i want to get a date every week because that in my opinion is not really fab, but i guess having a boyfriend and getting dates for me is something along the same track....first you get dates and then you get a boyfriend.



to answer lil_gem_gem's question...probably someone slightly older (up to 5 yrs max), with a sense of style, cute/hot looking, and nice in a non creepy way..ie not too nice because ppl like that piss me off and creep me out, and with a cool job and hobbies.

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lil_gem_gem

lil_gem_gem says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2009

it really depends on wot guys ur tryin to attract i cud say wear more make up and change ur style but i kno u really dont want to hear this but u shudnt change for a guy!

jewelxoxencrusted

jewelxoxencrusted says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2009

hey dere! totaly agree wit lil gem..but u noe wt i get wher ur comin from so try nd b a bit mor outgoing lyk getout der nd start socialisin wit lots of guys nd cos usay ur shy mayb dts ur thing ryt dere

u shd lossen up a bit ..but hey bottom line :once u noe u got his attention dnt lyk go running into his arms play hard 2 get but dnt go too far..dnt wrry..i noe sounds complicated ryt but once u start it'l b lyk spelling ur name!

jewelxoxencrusted

jewelxoxencrusted says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2009

just dress to KILL!

xx

stacifersam

stacifersam says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2009

Everyone feels this way sometimes, trust me. Just try a little revamp on yourself...new haircut or colour, new perfume, a little twist to your wardrobe ETC; It'll make you feel better about yourself and attract attention. Go out with your friends, get one of them to hook you up with someone...but the most important thing even though you don't want to hear is to be yourself. You shouldn't have to change your attitude for anything or anyone. Nobody likes a poser, and the truth will come out sooner or later. A guy should fall for you, yourself.

x_elena

x_elena says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2009

wear more like, makeup, cuter clothes.. n stuff lol.

aylay

aylay says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2009

The simple fact is... why do you want a bunch of guys to ask you out? From what you're saying, you sound like a pretty cool girl. The point is not "quanitity", but "quality." Find a guy who cares about beyond the face, beyond the makeup, beyond the hair. It's definitely flattering to have a trail of guys drooling behind you, but what's the point? A confidence boost?



Find confidence in yourself, not how many guys ask you out. Yes, in a way, this goes along with the "just be yourself", but my point is different. Look for someone who will stay during the "ugly" days. Someone who looks past the beauty is someone worth keeping. ;]

babyleno

babyleno says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2009

Hey dont worry Krista, we all go thru stages like this!!! My advise is next time you go out just have fun with your girls, show that your enjoyin yourself and your more concerned about having fun with them then havin a guy on your arm!!! Before you know it, guys will be drawn to your sexy smile and laughter!! Its contageous!! Good luck xxx

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