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kerplunk_44 asked:

27 Mar 2012

I don't know what to do!!!

hey guys! so i have no clue how to fix my friendship situation!! :s okay sooo me and my best-friend haven't been the same for a while now... I juss feel like were drifting apart! soo any way she and this girl have been hanging out alot lately and she has been ditching me alot!! and well the only time she wants to hang out is when she want my brother to get her some weed... and then she juss dosnt talk to me for a long time after that. I have no clue what to say to her. and it really pisses me off when we do hang out and she is juss like " it's okay that I am your only good friend`( and she isn`t my only friend js) and she always makes me do weed with her! and i dont like it what should i do!!!!!!!!!! please help meh!!



msqueen says:

Posted on 27 Mar 2012

OK first of all... tell her you dont want weed also say..if you want years of best friendhip to go to waste then wast it... I am your best friend and you rather hand with soem other girl then me.. soem girl u just met?and u ditch me until u have time or u want MY BROTHER of all people to get you weed you may proceed in your lil act but dont get me into it To..ok say that is you dont wanna be her friend....if u do say this

I was always your friend but it seems you dont wanna be my friend is that so? we are drifiting aprat because of you and this there soemthing your not telling u like her better than me?.

ok let me state my opinion before u say one of these..why be her friend she obviously doesnt wanna hang she only hangs out with u to get to ur bro which leed to weed and soemthing u dotn want..if that is so then dont be hr friend..also u neva no she might be lez and wants to hang with the other girl or maybe...needs help!


caslynn says:

Posted on 28 Mar 2012

Okay, I'm with MsQueen on everything she says.

You shouldn't let your friend pressure you into doing drugs. You have the freedom of choice and if she acts like she likes you less because you won't get high with her maybe you should consider not being friends with her anymore.

It sounds like she's saying a lot of rude and passive aggressive things, and that she looks down on you because "she's your only close friend." Don't let that slide. A real friend wouldn't talk to you like that.

I think you should really reconsider your friendship and figure out what makes you actually want to be friends with this girl. I know it sounds lame but maybe make a pros and cons list, and figure out whether it's really worth restoring your friendship if she's just going to be verbally abusive and use you to get to your brother.


vampkisses says:

Posted on 28 Mar 2012

Personally, I think that you should start hanging out with other people to because this is happening to me and my friend, only I'm the one that drifted away and started hanging with other people (I don't do drugs though!) but she has a ton of other friends, I just got tired of the way she treated me and acted.... You should experiment with hanging out with new people and see who you like and go on from there (: I think that you should stop doing weed with her and even tell your brother not to give her weed anymore and see how she acts. You definitely do not wanna keep doing it if you don't like it because you can still become addicted. I hope this helped and good luck!


kyllie says:

Posted on 28 Mar 2012

tell her strait up, just be like if your my true friend please just tell me whats rong if u dont wanna be my friend or what? just be like i really need to know so im not jut wasting my time on a fake friend.


itsjustjenna says:

Posted on 31 Mar 2012

One thing I have to say first, is I'm sort of in that situation, except that the girl was my other bestie (I still love them both, it's not gonna help me to hate them), and no weed. noooo weed. ew. They're both leaving my school next year, plus my new bestie, so I'm going to have to start allllllll over.
Anyway, I don't think you should be hanging out with this girl. I don't think you should want to, but that's a lot easier said than done (i know this from experience). Find some other friends that you can count on and trust. This would be hard for me, because I'm shy in front of people. If you make more friends, don't tell them how much you hate her or whatever. If this thing with her new friend doesn't work out and she comes back to you, you still want to keep the friends you made. ( also, if she comes back to you, make sure she explains everything and knows how you feel) If your new friends don't like her, you'll end up losing one or the other, and more friends is always better, right? (lol jk) Hope I helped!

PS: I'm still kinda in your situation, so I know how you feel.

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