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kaylaythatsme asked:

12 Jul 2009

Players don't change......right?

So there's a guy I've been talking to for QUITE a while now. We both know we like eachother and talk about it, but he's leaving for college next month. So we're not going to start a relationship..TOO COMPLICATED. (plus I'm sure he'll be pretty interested in the college girls....) So we've talked about it and decided that we're just gna have fun for the summer before he leaves.



Apparently, he's known as a player around his friends and has had sex with 9 girls (or so he says). He knows that I'm not going to do anything major with him. But he says he reeally likes me.



So i guess i'm asking....do you think he's just saying he likes me to get in my pants? or he means it?

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ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 12 Jul 2009

Players can change.. but you said that he is about to go off to college then that change is not now...or soon. Usually a guy changes when he has found someone he really wants to settle down with or someone that he wants to change for. This also usually happens when the guy gets tired of being a player and that there is no excitement anymore.



If I were you I will not get too emotionally involved with this guy. He seems to just want a summer fling with no strings attached.. if that is what you want too then.... But just know that. If he really likes you, like you said then he would want to be with you and being a relationship with you. ( Harsh.. I know). But most likely he may like you now.. but once he is off to college, you will be out of sight... out of mind.

pretty_fla_girl

pretty_fla_girl says:

Posted on 12 Jul 2009

he obviously feels tha same and knows hes ready 4 tha college life... most guys go really far jus to get a little yew know wat... so yea i think hes jus saying that .. he may really like yew yes this is true but if wat yew say bout him sleeping with 9 girls sounds 2 me like hes a kiss and tell guy and yew would jus be another story...please dont give in2 this guy sry if yew don wana here that but ive been around way 2 many of these guys and i bet hes really good at sweet talk 2 dont fall 4 it jus enjoy tha friendship and company:p

YEW ARE RIGHT PLAYERS DONT CHANGE

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 12 Jul 2009

pretty good chance



you're very pretty and i'm sure he thinks so too



but if people call a guy a player and he boasts about his 'sexies' i would say it's probly a good title



don't stress have your fun but keep your eyes open for a really good guy

kaylaythatsme

kaylaythatsme says:

Posted on 12 Jul 2009

well i pretty much wanted just a summer fling too....but not with a jerk.



Thanks for the advice.

violet490

violet490 says:

Posted on 12 Jul 2009

no commetn....:thumbdown:

shadyca

shadyca says:

Posted on 13 Jul 2009

well, if you wanna have fun this summer, then go ahead.

but you need to set your limits.you said by yourself that you don't want to do anything major with him, the problem is that he will probably want thatcause of his reputation.but you have to say no if you don't feel like it. :)



but my advice is-go for it!why wouldn't you have fun this summer?

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