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kaco14 asked:

22 Jul 2009

do you think i should try to get him back?

me and my ex boyfriend were eallygood together and i lobe him soo much we've been apart for a little over three mounths. wha happened was one day i was at a fiends houe and ahe was telling him we are at all these diffrent places and lieng to him. then that night he was mad so i went to see him and we kind made up a little. he was hol me from behind with his arms around my waist and one girls goes she doesn't like that and he got pissed off and left. i stode there like what the hell, hen we went back to my other friends house and got a rndom text from his ex saying they had sex so i better watch out. laterr afer my friends called him without me knowing he came over and was like hatver se said isn't true nd if i had dpe that i would have told you. we hugged good night. that was saturday night i saw him again on sunday and we were good. wensday he broke up with me hrogh one of my best friends but when she told me she looked happy, i broke down and cried all night long. thenthe next week n thuresday we got back together and i was really happy then a week or two later i startd hearing things like he toldis brother that i was controling him and thats why he broke up with me. i was angry ad uset so i broke up with him he said he admited it was true but he didn't really feel like that. well now we're both in x-country and friends on myspace we talk every once in awhile but i miss him and i think he knows it. i still ove him and ever since the break up i've been really depressed. should i try to get him back? and if so how?

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amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

i think that you should leave it for a while, and just stay friends just to be certain that when/if you do get back together then you will love each other, and have a friendship as well as a relationship[;

if you really do want to get back together with him, then explain to him what actually happened, just like you have explained to us. if he knows you well enough to notice that you are telling the truth and that you are being honest, then he will get back together with you, if he wants to.

i would just keep it as a friendship now, just for the time being and see what happens in the futuree[:

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

first you both need to just think about your actions and be able to talk to eachother like adults if you want a real relationship



doing things out of spite and emotion isn't going to win any battles.



and if he suddenly got mad and did actually sleep with his ex i would say he's not wourth your time



but then you went crazy and dumped him later because something you heard he said about you instead of talking it through and trying to solve the problem



you guys have some issues and you both would need to make an effort to think about that.



just ask him if he'd like to try it one more time and if it doesn't work don't try again some things just can't be changed about people and sometimes being friends is so much more appealing



"hey, i miss you and i love you. do you want to try it one more time and this time if we have a problem don't be afraid to come together and talk about it? if you don't think we can make it work i understand and i would just really like to stay friends with you at least because i like having you in my life"

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