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justmusicxd asked:

16 Apr 2012

I'm seriously confused! Help!! XD

Ok so I meet this boy a few days ok.I didn't have feelings for him when we 1st meet but he did for me.He asked me to be his girlfriend the 2nd day we knew each other.I said yes cuz I just couldn't say no >< But he was very forward..kissing me and telling me he wants a serious relationship.This scared me A LOT! So when I got home I messaged him saying I know u want a serious relationship but I'm just not ready for it.He was upset but he understood.But now I'm finding myself missing him.Sometimes I will feel I have feelings for him and sometimes I won't! I miss hugging him.But on the day he asked my to be his gf I didn't want to hug or kiss him! The only thing is he is very forward and when we were together it was like we had been going out for months.That makes me very nervous,Plus he's my 1st bf >< WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? xD Please help I don't know what to do...



caslynn says:

Posted on 16 Apr 2012

If you're really confused about whether or not you have feelings, you could always tell him that. Let him know that you want to try dating him, but that you want to take things really slowly. Set ground rules. If hugs are okay but kisses aren't, tell him that. Tell him that you want to see whether you have feelings for him and date for awhile and that even though you aren't ready for a serious relationship right now, you might be one day.


dragana94 says:

Posted on 16 Apr 2012

If he's too forward like you say,then you need to tell him that.What ever is bothering you,you need to tell him and I agree with Caslynn you should date for awhile and be sure what you want. :) You need to figure out what you want,and then talk to him.


shinja says:

Posted on 17 Apr 2012

... I am surprised you got together THAT fast, I mean you barely knew each other :O. Why not just tell that you want to get to know him before actually getting together with him? :P


inside_out says:

Posted on 18 Apr 2012

I think you're getting the right vibe - he's going a bit too fast. If you tell him that & that you're not ready... if he really likes you he will respect that.
Aaaaand.... it sounds like you're got a case of the HORMONES. Don't worry... it's completely normal at this age....
When this happened to me I simply tried to step back and analyze the situation... cuz sometimes you'll just get weird feelings about a guy... just because he's a guy.
You want to KNOW who the guy is you're dating before you date him... so maybe that's something you should tell him - that you want to get to know him first before you get physical.
Remember to set boundaries before entering the relationship - decide how physical you want to get BEFOREHAND. As you're experiencing, when you're IN LOVE, things get really confusing and illogical.

So overall, you should probably just take a break...

God Bless :)

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