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juliersulli asked:

20 Aug 2010

dad drama

okay so i just recently moved in with my mom, and my dad told me im coming back to utah for highschool (my parents are divorced kinda) and this is what i wrote him back: okay dad, I'm going to tell you the 100% truth, and dont get mad okay, but i want to stay here, and by the time im 14 and ready for highschool it's going to be my decision. you treat me like im 8, and I'm turning 13 dad, and I dont think you can get it through your head, and believe i can be more honest with my mom, because her, or this family doesnt hover, they dont read my stuff, because the 'suspect' somethings going on, me and my mom are more alike, and honestly, i can trust her more than i can trust you. youve flipped out on the smallest, stupidest things, but when you do its perfectly alright, you say I'm acting to old, but youre treating me too young, and the longer you do that, the more I'm going to rebel. you speak like youre the most perfect guy in the world, and in youre eyes, you can never make mistakes, you say that youre wrong 99% of the time but right now youre right 100% of the time. but what I'm trying to say is tha i dont want to move back to utah, do you know how bad i hate it there?? i dont fit in, because im not mormon, so that means I'm not as good as them, I'm what you would call a 'social misfit', and taylor,brandon, michelle, all treat me like im not as good as them, but here its different, its better. and dont even get me started on leslie, if she keeps doing what shes doing, shes going to look like a malnourished barbie. I'm sorry to say, but she is so selfabsorbed so high maintence, she excersizes so much, and she weighs less than i way!! how would you feel if you were 12 and you weighed more than your dad? and obviously we dont get along. and you always say 'its your fault were having a divorce' or 'if you werent born id probably be in the nba' and do you know how much it hurt to know its not true?? you made me feel like a burden since i was 7 you made me feel so bad about myself, that i actually believed it, believed i was a bad person, leslie calls me so many names, its just, the worst feeling in the world.

alright dad, this is obviously something ive had on my chest for about 5 years, and i desperately needed to get it off, and im bawling right now thinking of all theese things. so please dad, just back off the subject and realize i get to make my own decisions sometimes. and please dont even write back. just, just dont okay? and dont get mad, cuz its the truth, all the truth in my eyes. this is what im feeling, you always said be open with you and you wouldnt get mad, so are you going to get mad at me? and i feel sorta bad about it, but all of it is true, like should i have done that or should i go delete it while i hav the time? orshould i let him know how i feel?? if you wanna know more, I'll tell u more, personal stuff if u wanna mesage me or sumthin kay?? -julie

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erismarie

erismarie says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

Dang, for a 12 year old, you write very well.



Honestly, if I were your dad, I would've cried a little.

I don't know you, & I'm not in that situation but it touched me somehow (weird, lol)

erismarie

erismarie says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

Dang, for a 12 year old, you write very well.



Honestly, if I were your dad, I would've cried a little.

I don't know you, & I'm not in that situation but it touched me somehow (weird, lol)

jjb714

jjb714 says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

Pretty nice writer!

Anyway you told you're dad the truth that is good but the part where you said "Don't even reply back" was kind of harsh I bet once he read this he may have wanted to.



But over all GOOD for you! You stood up!

shadyca

shadyca says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

oww, this was harsh.

but as a person that respects honesty-I think it's good you got it off your chest. I bet it was hard to carry it all and this could really be helpful. he's an adult, I'm not saying this isn't gonna hurt him but it will make him stop and think about your relationship for a second. he'll see he was wrong and things should get better. it's always helpful to tell the truth even if it can hurt someone's feelings. think of it this way-he'll be hurt now, for a short while but imagine what could happen if this continued-you are miserable, he is the way he is. and then, one day you snap tell him everything, even some things you shouldn't have to because as years pass by, you collect more negative energy. then, you have a massive fight and never speak to each other again. so, I believe it's better to know to truth now, it will be easier for both of you in the future. and you'll be able to have normal, funnctional teenage yeras.

but also, I would drop the pert when you're saying him not to reply. because it kinda looks like you don't want to speak to him ever again and I'm sure you don't want that. and he will want to respond.

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

my dad and I also used to have a rocky relationship. It's especially hard when you're 12, i've been there, you know..but let me tell you there's always room for healing, and you don't wanna completely cut off your dad for the rest of your life. he still IS your dad after all.

hazel_eyes435

hazel_eyes435 says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

well i know how you feel kinda. i havent talked to my dad in 3 or 4 years now. and about utah.... AHHHHHHH!!!!! this is the worst possible place to be! im not morman and im not the best kid but its like.... oh my god! they treat u like crap and i know im not but thats how they make me feel. if i was you i would have done the same thing. my dad has tried to force things on me that i just tell him off on because im very strong minded. keep speaking your mind cuz if u dont it will turn into a great mess. let him know how your feeling and just let things out. in the long run it will do good for you if u want a "father daughter" relationship when your older. and i hope you get that. its something im not going to have and it makes me sad so, i hope you get one and are happy!!! its something you needed to do, and its a good thing you did it.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

it's good, a bit harsh ofcourse but sometimes you have to be to get your point across.



i would spell check a little and make sure your clear on some of your sentences a bit more.



but yea being 13 you do have some say in where you go and it's good to look in your parents divorce papers and see what his visitation is really suppost to be. if he makes a fuss about it then you may be able to see what it says about if he's suppost to get you every other week end or if your mom gets to choose where you go to school.



hopefully he won't fuss about it but if he does you can always go to court and the judge will want to hear what you have to say so also i would keep a copy of your letter somewhere so you don't have to be put on the spot if that happens

born2sing

born2sing says:

Posted on 22 Aug 2010

My parents are divorced 2. I understand. Im turning 13 and the feeling stinks except its with my mom. but when we talked face to face she understands. try confrunting him. but it was kinda over the top or harsh. But i would have done the same., very nice writign!!!

born2sing

born2sing says:

Posted on 22 Aug 2010

email him back and tell him u still love him. U should fix this now instead of living ur life hating ur dad. bc thats what it sounds like

aquasm926

aquasm926 says:

Posted on 18 Jun 2011

i agree with born2sing

juliersulli

juliersulli says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

I know, i hate utah soo much

hazel_eyes435

hazel_eyes435 says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

everyone is so quick to judge, its rediculous really. so i guess im the one in this boring place to set the standard of what is not perfect like all of them ppl who think their so amazing cuz they do everything right. its STUPID. and makes me mad so thats why at 16 im moving to cali with my friend.

juliersulli

juliersulli says:

Posted on 20 Aug 2010

hahaha, this is soo true, and good luck in cali

hazel_eyes435

hazel_eyes435 says:

Posted on 21 Aug 2010

haha thanks. i cant wait to leave this place!!!

erismarie

erismarie says:

Posted on 23 Aug 2010

No it doesn't. Not even a little, honestly.

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