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Well, what can I say about myself... I'm a girl! My parents are divorced, dad remarried. I live with my mom and visit my dad every other weekend. I have a brother and a sister. I'm considered a "smart" person but it bothers me when people expect me to get right answers 24/7. I lack self confidence...More saduisahduiash dsau

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jujujenny asked:

12 Jun 2009

Why am I so awkward in some situations- and others not?

OK when I'm around my friends or stuff like that I don't think before I act or talk, I

m actually funny and OK about myself. My confidence is boosted and I automatically don't care what people think when I'm with my buds.

Then, when I'm with like my family(not my immediate family) I like ball up into this self concious (i really suck at spelling!!! lol) thinks before every thing she does embarrassed and awkward person! I don't know why but I'm kinda sick of it. Today I was with some peeps that were kinda strangers and I was that person I was making my feeble attempts at trying to be comfortable and my friend called and I was talking to him and the people who were with me at the moment were just staring at me! they said I was a completely different person!!!! Any tips on how to like NOT be like this?

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jujujenny

jujujenny says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

sorry bout the typos apparently i can't grasp the concept of proof reading!

cutegirl135

cutegirl135 says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

im just like this too. i'm really crazy around my friends but when i go to my dads house i'm really quiet. i'm starting to be myself around the people at my dads house cuz my step brother is crazy like me so i feel better cuz i dont think im being stupid

violetvibez

violetvibez says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

Well im kinda the same way. What I do is with strangers (walking in the sore, resturant, etc.) I just tell my slef "I dont know them and they dont know me" and with family (grandparents, aunts uncles, etc.) I just tell myself "Wether they like it or not they will except me b/c we are family" It usually helps me. But im kinda one who wants to stand out and have ppl look a me. i do however know what you mean!

mandie_monsterhxc

mandie_monsterhxc says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

umm just be yourself chick. :thumbup: best route to go.

add me

jujujenny

jujujenny says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

I'm also like this at my dad's house...

cutegirl135

cutegirl135 says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

do u have any step brothers?

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

you might want to try a little caming thing when you know you're going to be in any situations like that



take your bud's hands and yell something or say something a few times like

"i'm awesome"

"people wanna be me"

"i kick ass"

"someday i'm be as cool as Barbi"



hehe,... well maybe someday you will lol

jujujenny

jujujenny says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

yeah but he haz hiz own houze

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

When you are with your friends, and talking about whatever and anything you want and you do not care... it is because you are in your comfort zone. You know that they will also be as goofy as you and you will not judge them. It is normal. But you will not act or talk the same way around your teachers. That is normal too. I too speak and act differently around my parents. I am more proper, I do watch my language, but I am goofy with them as well. Its just different.

You may be more quiet where you do not feel as comfortable, a bit more introverted...it is normal.

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

just be yourseelf, don't change for anyone. :]

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