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joyisel_09 asked:

18 Jan 2010

idk what to do anymore ?? feel lost :(

Well my boyfriend broke up with me aabout a month ago..and I'm still not over him..we were going out for 1year and 5months...I really and truly feel like we are meant to be but idk...I had cheated on him for this other guy and I know that hurt him but when he asked me to go back with him I did because I realized how much I truly love him ..now that he broke up with me,I BEGGED for us to be back together but he said no bc he said he is enjoying his life...he seems changed like he's not the guy I knew but I feel as though he's trying to do that so ill stop talking to him...I know how he is and I just really really want to get back with him.. people say I need time to get over him but I know that won't work..I believe we are meant to be together I just feel like I'm losing hope on the situation...I don't want to give up on him ..its funny bc he always told to "never back down" on something you love and look how ironic haha so idk help or suggestions would be nice pleasee :)

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_riah_

_riah_ says:

Posted on 18 Jan 2010

Well I have a moto for life based on things I have went through..



"Everything happens for a reason."



It's true, everything does happen for a reason. There was a reason for your relationship's starting and ending. You can probably easily figure out the reason for the start, but I'm sure right now this break up doesn't have a reason in your eyes...I think the reason that poeple go through things like this is to make them stronger. I know that feeling..it hurts and it can seem impossible to let go of, and trust me, it won't be easy, but you have to try to live your life and let it go. It will be better for you and healthier if you try to be happy now..because if you try to be happy now, just know that the longer you try, the happier you will really be.



If you guys are meant to be together then it will happen...but if you aren't then this was a test for you...hopefully it shows you how much you can handle and live through.



Good luck and smile! : )



-Riah

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 18 Jan 2010

It has only been a month. You love him, so let him have some space to figure things out. Tell him that you love him and you will want to wait for him. So give him time to think and do what he wants..then he will come back to you if you two are meant to be. Do not force him, but just wait it out. it is only fair for him.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 Jan 2010

sorry girl i know it feels like you're the only one who's ever felt that before



but we've all gone through it and that's y we know you will get over it and usually you'll dwell on something like that because you don't have it anymore and until you get a chance to create another bond like that with someone else. and we all do.



give it time and stop thinking about the past. it's great to remember the good times but don't think about what if. it's over. there's always a chance later things could change between you but right now you have to try to just do you. he needs thing break apparently and after he has time to return to normal then if you still feel like that start off with trying to just be friends with him

gbpkid

gbpkid says:

Posted on 18 Jan 2010

sorry to hear that.

but things get better.

it just takes time.





(i wouldnt say its all his fault btw as it seems to be in your q'.. cause you did cheat on him, and altho he may of seemed asif he wasnt overly bothered, sometimes it can take a while to niggle at you...) :)

i hope you feel better soon

everyone goes through this

xxxx

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