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jod_mets asked:

14 Sep 2010

Do it... just to loose it?

I want to have sex. But I'm nervous that i'll be totally horrid, or that he'll be judging me really badly.... help? Tips, Advice... anyone!!! :(



runningwithscissors says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

Don't do it just to lose your virginity. Wait until you love someone, that's what I did. He didn't judge me, because he loved me. Plus, when you're nervous, the muscles in your vagina get tense and it hurts even worse.


babiijuiciix3 says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

you'll wish you didn't lose it when you get pregnant or an std. giving your virginity to someone is a big deal you should give it to someone you love i gave mine to my boyfriend 5 years ago and we're still together


babiijuiciix3 says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

o an, if he's pressuring you your worth the wait and if he loves you then he'll wait


shadyca says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

don't do it just because you ''feel'' you have to do it.

I had a friend who did it 2 years ago just so she could say she did it. and now she's regreting it so bad. she says it was the stupidest thing she has ever done, gave her virginity to some guy that was using her throughout their entire relationship, the guy was really a bastard. don't let this happen to you.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

#1 the first time is always awkward, but if it's with someone you love it's the same thing for both of you.

#2 yea i wouldn't do it just to loose it. 'it' isn't going to stand in your way of anything. so what's the big deal about 'haveing' to get rid of it?

#3 with me my first time i blead heavily for almost a week. i had to tell my mom and i was so scared but i was so lucky my boyfriend loved me and would stay with me every afternoon and keep tabs on me making sure i was alright and if i needed anything (we were enguaged but a year later i broke it off cause we had both changed alot that last year of school)

i didn't loose mine till i was 18


sena95 says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

if you are nervous you shouldnt do it because this is a sign that you r not ready but if you were nt nevous if you were comfortable then do it because this is a sign tht you r ready !


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

having said that he might judge you in a bad way, I presume this guy isn't someone you really trust... well, don't do it just yet.


vanillabb says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

I made that mistake , i don't regret having a sexyy time =p ... I just regret doing it under the influence.. nothing was special about it at all.

If you know you won't regret it , then go for it , but if your one of those people that want to wait until you get married then hold out on it .. its really not that big of a deal i say live your life to the fullest , but make sure he's tested before you do the deed .


shinja says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2010

Okay, this is a hard question to answer. Because, I don't think there's a real right or wrong answer, it's simply about your own way of looking at sex.

I have a really close friend, that had sex first time with one of her guy friends, just too loose it, by the way she has alot of guy friends. She has a very relaxed way of looking at sex, and she do sexual stuff with a couple of guys, none of them her boyfriend. She don't regret anything at all, and don't think you need to be much more then friends to do it.

And now, if anyone thinks, well maybe she's just sad inside or something like that. Then believe me, I known her a long, long time. And she really likes it that way, alot of guys want to be her boyfriend, but she doesn't want one.

Then there me, that's still a virgin. And I think of sex as a fun way to show someone you love them. I don't want to wait till I'm married or anything, but I want to have my first time with someone I'm in a serious relationship with.

There's no right or wrong answer, it simply your way of looking at it.

If you feel that you only want to sleep with people you have a close, long relationship with, after loosing your virginity, and just want to get it over with before that. I don't think you should do it.

While if you see sex as something fun to enjoy, then I think it's fine to do it with someone you have abit more casual relationship with.

Though, this guy, you are talking about right now, doesn't sound right. I mean, you are afraid he will judge you. Which means you don't trust him, and no matter which way you choose to go sexually, even if you choose somewhere in betweeen, I think it's importen you trust the person. :D


vanillabb says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2010

also , if it dosn't feel right then you won't have fun ... & its all about having fun so if your thinking he's going to be judging you then it will ruin your first experience.

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