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jinehere asked:

11 Dec 2010

Hi! I really really need help.

I brokeup with my boyfriend after two years of realtionship because he cheated on me with someother girl. I am glad that we brokeup. But now I feel very lonley. All the time. Feels like Iam empty inside and somethings missing in my life. I tried various hobbies but none seem to intrest me more than a while.

Am so confused and so sad all the time - and I dont wana be. Please help. What do I do?

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livife

livife says:

Posted on 11 Dec 2010

I know how you feel, I've kinda just been going through this over the last 4-5months... Time really is a healer, I didn't think it when I was at my worst but it really is, and having a laugh with your friends really helps :) x

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 11 Dec 2010

Well, you haven't exsacly said how long ago you broke up with him, but I am guessing it haven't been more then a couple of months. It can be hard to get over people who have been very close to you, and a active part of you life for a long time, and there isn't really a quick solution. First I think you should deal with it. Tell yourself that it went wrong because he was a jerk, it had nothing to do with you and that you deserve much better. Even though you probably know all thoose things already, it is importen that you remind youself of that when you feel lonely and sad. While remembering that, it's a good idea to go out and have fun with your friends. Though you should try to forget and move on, you shouldn't push youself to be happy, when you are not. It will just make you feel more miserble and I think that's what you have been trying to do, when trying various hobbies and all that stuff. Try to find comformt in the old and familiar in your life.

michelle_bby

michelle_bby says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

yuhh donnt need emm, yuh juss were used to havinng him around. yuhh cann replace emm easily, do sumthin else

jinehere

jinehere says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

:) am glad I found this website.
Thanks for all your lovely replies!

rokkii

rokkii says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

What I tell all my friends when they go through break ups after a long time, is just to enjoy being single! It's a beautiful thing! You can do anything you want! Be exactly who you want to be without worrying how your choices are going to affect someone else! You said he treated you poorly, making you adjust. What'd you adjust for him that you didn't want to? Take it back! Recapture the person you truly are, and if that's not exactly the same as before, that makes total sense! But embrace your singleness and be who you want! You can flirt, look around, see what's out there without commitment. Relationships are great! But so is self confidence and freedom that you just don't have coming out of a bad relationship. It might be even better. So do what makes you you and regain that.
God bless you!

galoosh1412

galoosh1412 says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

i know exactly what u feel girl!!! it's all about time.. don't worry haha it wil pass soon
just keep going with your life.. have fun! do shopping meet different guys! and forget about him :)

firefox_12

firefox_12 says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

Trust me, it's gonna take time.
But you're stronger, right? Flaunting the fact that you're single is a great thing. It's one of the most gorgeous things on earth because YOU ARE TOTALLY FREE!!!!!!!! the world is yours, hon. Enjoy yourself and everyone else around you because being alive is second only to being free!

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 13 Dec 2010

yea deff takes time.

you don't have to have a bf to be happy but you do need a bff. best friends help alot.

i do all kinds of artsy things but hanging out with friends is so fun too

youknowwho

youknowwho says:

Posted on 13 Dec 2010

there r somethings that really help me when im lonely..and i would lv to suggest these to u.
1.think that even if no1 is wid u.GOD is always wid u.u will never feel lonely after realizing that.
2.listen to music.it'll keep u satisfied..there r some songs that i really like when im lonely cuz they really help alot.(eg.liar by korn...and attack by 30 sec to mars...:)
3.get a faceboook..and make new friends..and hv fun.

krista090

krista090 says:

Posted on 21 Dec 2010

After 2 years o a relationship its probably difficult to immediately find a new hobby that you like however think a bit about things you are passionate about and try to find hobbies related to that.
Spend time with your funnest friends and try as much as possible to avoid very sad people.

jinehere

jinehere says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

Thanks Shinja. Its been 3 months so far. But then again am glad that we broke up.. he really wasnt worth it. He used to treat me bad and he used to expect me to adjust to everything and live life in 'his' way. Am glad that I came out. Now that you say it.. I think I really was pushing myself to be happy which was making me sad. Thanks a lot. Will just try to be me for some time.

jinehere

jinehere says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

Thanks Michelle. I indeed was used to having him around. :)

jinehere

jinehere says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

Thanks Maeve. I do really need good friends who share some intrests. And come to think of it.. I do have a few stuff that I like to do.. like make jewelry, or design tshirts..
Thanks for all your advice. :)

jinehere

jinehere says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2010

:) am glad I found this website.
Thanks for all your lovely replies!

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 13 Dec 2010

Good I am happy for you, take you time :) He sounds like a jerk :S

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