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jessd asked:

13 May 2009

Help with shyness and getting popular.

okay so im kinda shy. when there is a group of people i have nothing to say. i want to get known and get to know more people for them to like me. The populars too. what can i do??? i play volleyball. and basketball



mikiya04 says:

Posted on 13 May 2009

get involved in activities that show your talents to everyone. start with something that may be solitare, but gets you noticed. work with group projects that show off your creative side. look into the mirror at night and build your cofidence. try looking others in the eyes when you talk to them, it grabs more attention than looking away.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 13 May 2009

i just had to get more comfortable with who i was and that, for me, didn't happen till i was 10th or 11th grade

Don't be afraid to speak up and speak out. have fun crack a joke. maybe not everyone will snicker but you're sure to get some of them.

i never hung out with any of the kids from school (besides my 3 best friends) but it's great to have ppl notice you and know who you are (most of them are on my myspace now too so we can all see what eachother's up to)

but don't worry bout it too much

there'll be a whole new set of ppl when you get a job


tasya says:

Posted on 20 May 2009

I knwo EXACTLY how that feels! Being the 'new kid' at school was really hard because i never spoke up. When I started highschool I promised myslef that I would be more outgoing and confident, so day by day try to start a conversation with someone who seems nice but not too "Popular" then you will find that the more you become confident among them you will sometimes find your self talking to different people.

Also try finding someone qho has similair interest as you, efentualy you will find more people like that and have your own friendship group!

I used my slence of humour to make people luagh and hang around me more which relaly helped!

So just think i only live once and jump right into it!

Good Luck!:thumbup:


ostrander says:

Posted on 26 May 2009

The popular people are only considered 'popular' because they force people to notice them -- not saying it's a bad thing, unless they're super stuck up and grab attention for the wrong reasons. I know what you mean with the shy thing. In school I was actually known as "the quiet girl." Embarrassing, to say the least. But I did have a few friends whom I met through other people. It's a chain reaction, really. Just get to know a few people and then eventually you'll meet their friends and so on.


ndelaney says:

Posted on 27 May 2009

Just be nice to everyone you meet. Being outgoing takes practice. At first, it might feel awkward to make conversation with a stranger, but it WILL get easier. Smile at people, give compliments if you notice something you like, ask questions. Hold your head high, be friendly to everyone without judgement, and treat others around you how you hope to be treated. Who wouldn't want to be friends with someone like that? :)


miss_smiles says:

Posted on 27 May 2009

Populars aren't always great. I hang with my own crowd and i be myself and thats how people like you is if you do your own thing cause they know they don't have to change who they are or what they are to fit in with the "popular"

Because everyone pretends a little but dont change your shyness cause people like meeting shy people because they will try to know more about you. :)


meandcourtneywearspants says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2009

Trust me hunn... being popular isnt always a good thing. But if you want to be "known" and have more people like you I would try talking to more people. Being nice and friendly to everyone could make you known. (: Also, try not to be as shy... then you wont talk to as many people and make yourself known. Hope i helped!! Good luck!!

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