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jessd asked:

27 Sep 2010

freshman dating a senior?

i want to know what you think about a freshman dating a senior. Im 14 dating an 18 year old.



sena95 says:

Posted on 27 Sep 2010

It is normal , nothing is wrong with it , but dont let him cross the line :)


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 27 Sep 2010

my ex and I were 5 years apart. He was in college and I just started high school. We lasted 6 years. Apart from the messy break up, we had a "real" relationship, so to speak. So yeah, as long as you both are on the same page, the age difference is no biggie!


lyshalovesyou says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2010

I Think Its Perfectly Fine as Long as he Knows His Limits and You shouldnt really care about what people thinks... As Long as it makes you happy.... Its Ok (:


barbipixi says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2010

i think that usually an 18yr old has a job and a car and lots of maturity (hopefully) and a 14yr old has nothing really to worry about and can sometimes become obsessive cause the only real important thing in their life can be that person their dating

i also think that alot of 14yr olds aren't (look wise) as mature as their older half (but i'll say that's changing alot these days)

there are lots of cases where the 14er is very mature for their age and the 18er is very immature and they actually are about at the same levels but usually the older guy tends to take on a daddy type role after a while making all the choices (where to eat, where to go, who to hang out with after school)

so it's all about keepint their eyes open

personally i would freak out if my 14yr old daughter was dating an 18yr old man. cause yes 14 is still a child in the eyes of me and the law. and i would have a long talk with that man asking him why he wanted to date my daughter and he had better say something besides she's cute.


xhoneybeex says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2010

Its not a choice I would make but if you feel comfortable with it then I say go for it. You're in charge of you and as long as it works for your feelings, opinions and boundaries its great! But along with listening to your heart and mind, listen to people around you. If someone tells you something about him of a concerning nature, don't automatically believe but don't shove it to the side either. Just keep your eyes a little wider open to find out if it is:) Good luck!


jod_mets says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2010

Maeve took the words right out of my mouth. In my opinion though:

Seeing as this boy is 18, 18 year old boys down here aren't mature at all. They're the same 16 year old boys they used to be, wanting just one thing, other than the rare select few. I personally don't think that's the greatest idea just because of sex & pressure issues and temptations. If he really likes you, he will wait for you. I think if you were to feel comfortable with him, you wouldn't be asking this question! Also, seeing as he's 18 he will be going off to college/university next year/soon. He won't be wanting to stick around with a 14 year old, believe me. (Unless he's truly in this because he truthfully likes you that much.) But live in the moment, go with what you want, no one can change what you think: except you! I hope things work out.


omgitslily says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2010

Actually, its illegal. Right now u are considered a "child" and he is considered an adult. I am sorry to say that kissing and dating and all that is considered illegal by the police and would get him into very much trouble. When dating, u shouldn't date guys who r more then 2 years older then u, as a teen. Especially becuz older guys r often into different "things" when in a relationship. Be warned they might try 2 take advantage of u. But, long story short, dating an 18 year old is illegal.

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