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jessd asked:

16 Jun 2010

cant stand my best friend

so recently my best friend has been getting on my nervous like a lot. shes been getting on my nervous for about a month or two. Like yesterday we went to tell me a story and in the middle she goes whats worng. i said nothing, and nothing was wrong. She told me to smile and i just did a cheap little smile and said go on with the story, she said nvm i dont want to tell you know. like wtf that really got to me. and today we got our yearbooks and she asked if she could write in it. she wrote like a sentence than crossed it out and said nvm i cant think of anything. Im her best friend and she couldnt write anything while she can write a paragraph on someone she barely talks to.. theres more reasons why but there the more recent oness and oh yeah she barely talks to me anymore just to tell me something. she ditches me all the time. it seems like she gets on my nervous the most when we are around other people, but just us we are fine. idk would this things bother you? what do you think ??



vanillabb says:

Posted on 16 Jun 2010

Maybe she dosn't think of you as her bestfreind anymore ? , & If she truley likes you & wants to be freinds then she wouldn't be acting so disrespectful & rude to you all the time,

Or maybe she dosn't even realize it, because you guys might hangout soo much she knows how to push your buttons & she's getting way to comfortable with you around .. if that's the case then I'd say take some time away from her.


little_miss_sunshine says:

Posted on 16 Jun 2010

Yes it would bother me and I don't think you should reall stand for it. Keep being friends with her and try and make some other really good friends in your class or outsdie your class and then tell your bestfriend that you're going to sit with them at break, does she want to come with you? It seems to me that you rely on her a bit too much and she just seems to have you as a "bestfriend" so that she's got someone to be with when everyone else is busy.

Personally I'd find that pretty annoying,so you still want to be friends with her right? Well just make sure you've got loads of other really good friends and then go sit with them and stuff like that and then she'll see that you don't need her as much as she may think, and she might start making more of an effort again with your friendship.

Like when she was going to tell you something then she decided she didnt want to, you should just say "oh ok" and smile, then go talk to someone else, because then she'll be like actually wait i do want to tell you so that she has more attention and so that your talking to her.

Trust me, I had this kind of thing recently with my old bestfriend. Its horrid when you feel like your being treated as nothing, it really hurts when they make you feel that even though your supposedly their best friend, you seem to be the last priority out of all her friends.

And its also horrid when they think that doing what their doing is ok, but its quite obviously not and then if you tell them then they'd be like "oh your over-reacting" but thne if you were to do that to her then she would get really annoyed and all of a sudden it would be a big deal.

Show her that oyur in control of your friendship and its not up to her to decide whats ok and whats not.

I hope I helpd youuuu!!! :)


barbipixi says:

Posted on 17 Jun 2010

as people grow up they do change so maybe you guys aren't the same people you used to be is all.

you can still be friends but maybe you need to add another person in to your area to help break it up


eternityscreams says:

Posted on 19 Jun 2010

:] ill be ur new best friennd:]


jessd says:

Posted on 16 Jun 2010

thanks that did help alot. and i have been doing most of that. like i did just say oh okay and turn away, and i havent been waiting for her to leave class and everything.

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