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Jessica Halsey

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unmotivated, lonely, lost, isolated, pessimistic, unconfident, jealous, unaware, heartbroken sixteen year old; living in the past.

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jess_crazystupid asked:

18 Feb 2010

I don\'t want to break his heart... ): help?

ok.. so I have a boyfriend and we're very happy. (:

however: yesterday i got a text from my ex saying:

'' Jess... i am in love with you :( i lost you and i am kicking myself for doing so :'( you really loved me didn't you... :( xxx''



I replied saying how i have a new boyfriend, and how i gave him a second chance etc.. the thing is, that's not the whole truth. i think i am still in love with my ex. it's so hard because i don't want to break my boyfriends heart and go straight back to my ex. i just can't do that to him...



but then again, i think, why am i in this relationship when i want to be with someone else who wants me too.

i'm really trying to make it work with my bf, but i always end up thinking of how it could be with my ex..

i can't make myself love someone.. love is natural :/

but i don't want to hurt anyone..

what do i do? :(

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hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 18 Feb 2010

why did you and you ex split up in the first place???

jaydde_woodrow

jaydde_woodrow says:

Posted on 18 Feb 2010

yeah why did you's split up in the first place?????

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2010

truthfully alot of girls feel like that and most kick themselves in the ass for going back to the ex in the end.



y did you guys break up? i'm 99% sure he hasn't changed who he is, and normally the reason you broke up is going to be the reason you break up next time too.



girls and guys both miss what they had and when they've been broken up for a while the seem to forget the things that were making it not work and they seem to think things change when you can't change who a person is.



if you don't love your boyfriend and you don't like being with him then break up with him. and before you go back with your 'old love' try to think about y you broke up and if anything is really different?

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2010

if you and your ex split for a good reason that would come up again later then its prob best to leave it and move on even though its hard. if it was for a stupid reason that doesnt matter at all now then you may need ti decide who you want to be with and be with them. but consider you bfs feelings in all this. he started dating you assuming that you were over the past and he didnt do anything to desreve this so make sure you know what decision so best because either way someones gonna be hurt. make sure also that you arent falling over your ex again just because its something kinda new with good memories mixed in and your flattered. and consider your future with each of them...which one looks more promising and matches what you plan for your own.

jess_crazystupid

jess_crazystupid says:

Posted on 19 Feb 2010

well he said it was cos we didn't see each other often enough.. i know that wasn't the real reason.

i reckon it was cos he found another girl he liked.. but i'm not too sure. :/ x

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