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jazzy17 asked:

01 Dec 2010


I'm different to other ppl when my sister ( who is also friends with my bestie) hangs out with her i get this message in my mind to back off my sister asks if I'd like to join them but I say no coz I know that I'm socialy a bit awkward and in social situations where there are girls my age I take one look at them when they are talking to one of my friends and I decide that they are popular and probably don't want to associate with an unpopular person like me. I tend to enjoy my own company a bit and just go wonder off. I feel that nobody understands me coz I'm different to other girls , Is it better to be invisible or do I just have to come out of my shell which I'm afraid of It takes me a while to open up to ppl



fathima says:

Posted on 08 Dec 2010

I agree with sena. you should come out of your shell. everybody around us r people like us. . v r all human biengs. they r differnts in ones appearence ,charrecters and so. if all of them are simmilar in everything there is no point it'll be no use. we should live with the way v are. we should move with others and get compliments from them. most of the people have thoughts like BEAUTY is everything. But i personaly feel beauty(appearence ) is nothing than the inner beauty.keep ur inner beauty to the high level. Just listen to your heart. live the life it's fullest. make friends who listen to you,understand you, and who truely LOVE you without any expectations.
hope it helps.


vanillabb says:

Posted on 01 Dec 2010

It''s okay to be "invisable" I sure am, I enjoy spending time by myself & if you do too, then that just means your an introvert, thiers no need for you to put yourself out their if you don't feel comfortable..just go with what feels right..


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 01 Dec 2010

Just try not to have negative thoughts on other girls. Although, it's okay to be aloof at times. I don't get real chummy with people who are kinda "off" to me either.


megatron says:

Posted on 01 Dec 2010

Don't worry, I'm exactly the same way. I try to be friendly to everyone just because I love seeing how they act and what their personalities are like, so that I can see how they truly are before I get really "chummy" with them.
I've a my share of socially awkward situations as well, though. And it's absolutely normal for you to feel that way. I mean, I don't see myself as popular in anyway shape or form and I hate to hang out with my sister and her friends when she asks just because they're not my type of "people", you know what I mean?
You can come out of your shell to anyone you feel comfortable doing so with, but it's also healthy to hold back and be invisible sometimes, too.
You've just got to find the right balance(:


barbipixi says:

Posted on 01 Dec 2010

i will say when you can get some self esteem (that does come with time) it is fun to feel apart of a group. and it really can start with you just thinking better of yourself first.

it's fine to do your own thing and deff be comfortable doing your own thing but don't shy away from the crowd just because you 'think' you don't fit


sena95 says:

Posted on 02 Dec 2010

Come out of your shell... be confident .. walk with your head high .. you are pretty , and sweet and there is nothing to worry about ... show yourself ... show that you are not afraid from life , BE FREE ! :)


undeadxprincess says:

Posted on 03 Dec 2010

Self esteem is not just something that you wake up in the morning and have.
Start by looking in the mirror and saying "This is me." Don't be negative and don't be positive. Just be neutral. That's you and that's it. Then, say "This is me, and this is what I like about myself." Then take the next step "This is me, this is what I like about myself, and I'm proud of who i am no matter what others think."
Then, pop out of your shell because I'm so sure that there is someone underneath there that is saying "HELLO?! When do I get to come out and play?" lol
It shouldn't matter what other people think of you, if you are happy with you then that's all there is to it. If other people don't, then they are lacking something you have. Confidence. Be yourself and don't hold back. You only live once, so live.


fathima says:

Posted on 08 Dec 2010

one more thing i just 4got to tell u that u r really PRETTY.


jazzy17 says:

Posted on 03 Dec 2010


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