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chesney jane floyd




10 Oct 1993

my name is jane.

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janie asked:

10 Jul 2009

I like my Best friend. Me and this guy have been friends since elemantary school :| HELP!???????????


So here is the thing,I have been inlove with my best friend since I first met him. In 5th grade his parents decided they were sending him to a private school for higher education. That just tore me up! I have cried over him plenty of times, and I still love him! We txt msg each other not alot, maybe once 2 to 3 months:\ He just never replies back most of the time, he says he is usually busy when he doesnt txt me back. He invited me to come watch him play his sport lacrosse. He can play to! I mean he has changed alot! He is just not the same guy anymore:\ I kinda like the new him but at the same time I just wish he was his old self again:\ I truely do love him and my mother has been through this situation with me multiple times she has supported my decisions on weather i love him or not and the multiple times I have cried over him and I just lovee my mother for that:)* she is the best! But He just means everything to me:| I think he liked me at once but since he has been at his new private school he has had some girlfriends only 1 that I know of...and I really did not like her either. She was a snob! But yeaa I know he liked me at 1 time and I really screwed up about 4 or 5 months ago and told him "I dont like you anymore,well I do but only as a friend" and I know you cant take words back....but I wanna take those back! It is to late now. My mother always told me that I might have a chance with him,But now I am not seeing the chances. I really want him to know that I like him but I am afraid he will quit talking to me. We talk on and off but ugh...idk I am just so confused right now.He has never really brought up the topic of dating when we talk but I just want to know what it is like to be his girlfriend.Just once,Even for an hour.I just wanna be able to call him mine for a change. So could yall' help me out on my situation?? I would gladly appreciate your help:)*



strgrl452 says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

I think you should tell him. i mean I know how complicated that is but if he's really nice he should give you a chance.


auri says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

I agree with strgrl452. You should def. tell him how you feel! he might still feel the same way back...and maybe hes been dating other ppl because he doesent know you still like him. I know its easier said than done but if you dont tell him, he'll never know.and your mom is so sweet to be there for you(: my parents wont let me do a ton of dating because they dont want me to make the same mistakes they did =/ Anyways, just let him totally honest and tell him that you were totally wrong about being "just friends". Im sure he'll understand. I hope everything works out girly(:


jasm1na says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

ask him on a date,

say you need to catch up on everything you've been missing all these years.

you'll have time to get to know his new self and you'll know if you still have feelings for him.

you can't stop ignnoring the fact, if you do TELL him.

or else you'll always be sad if he goes out with someone else.

you're holding yourself back, what if the perfect guy was at YOUR school, but you were too blinded by the other guy that you couldnt see him.

tell him and see what goes from there..

if he doesnt like you back, stay friends and move on.

it'll be hard but after all worth it.

good luckk:thumbup:


ctl888 says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

You are in a tough situation. ..What made you change your mind about him? First you told him you did not like him that way... but now you do?

The more time that passes and you do not talk to him about this, it will most likely eat up inside out. Glad to hear that you are talking to your mom about it and she is giving you support. I would say, find a time when you know he is also not busy and just see if he wants to hang out and try to tell him.


chlo_jalo says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

talk to him and become better friends, maybe if your friendship is closer he will find more things he likes about you and feel comfortable with you. dont tell him you love him because that would probably scare him off, tell him that you have liked him for a long time now and ask him if his feelings are the same. if he doesnt then try your best to move on that guy isnt worth your tears!


barbipixi says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

just call him or text him "uh... you remember when i said i didn't like you... well... i was just trying to hide the fact that i feel funny cause i know you would never like me like that, but i didn't want you to stop being my friend"

something like that where you're kinda saying you feel for him but if he didn't feel that way about you, you'll still be ok and you want to keep being friends, that gives him the oppertunity to say something if he wants but no pressure lol to a degree


amaay says:

Posted on 11 Jul 2009

i agree with 'BarbiPiXi' (:



shinja says:

Posted on 14 Jul 2009

I think it is a bad idea to ask him right now, since you can't be close and you clearly don't see each other alot. If I were you I would wait and just keep contact with him and then, if you are lucky you get a opportunity to get on a vacation with him or something like that were you can spend alot of time with him and then confess. If you are not that lucky I would just keep contact untill you can be more around him. Like you could try to get into his school, or when you get older move close to where he lives. Of course that means that you might have to wait for years, but since you love him wouldn't you be willing to wait?

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