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inside_out asked:

22 Jun 2011

How do you tell a guy no?

Ok so I'm sure many of you have had situations where a guy likes you and you DON'T like him... this has happened to me more than once... the other times I actually got to the point where they asked me out and I was just like "no" because I didn't know how to deal with it... then it was so awkward and I felt so uncomfortable that I just avoided those people for a long time... This guy right now (I can tell he likes me but I am not interested AT ALL)... I've been trying to imply that I am not interested by kindof ignoring him but I don't think he's taking the hint... the problem is that he goes to my pool... so now I don't really want to the pool because I think he'll probably be there and the fact that I'm in a bikini probably doesn't help. Any suggestions? Cuz I'm just lost. I just want to let him know "no" without being too mean... and hopefully not too awkwardly? (that's probably asking for too much...) But whatever... if you have any tips please let me know... Thanks :)



hollebug says:

Posted on 22 Jun 2011

Well you can always say the let's jsut be friends thing. You can also tell him you're not interested in being in a relationship right now and it's nothing against him. If you don't mind lying you can tell him you're already talking to someone else, haha. Good luck though!


dragana94 says:

Posted on 22 Jun 2011

This things happens to everyone...If he asks u out,just kindly say no,but in the mean time when he's around speak about other guy,like how much u like him,or how u're getting into him...LOL :)


danyooz says:

Posted on 22 Jun 2011

If i was in your shoes, i'd just ask nicely if we could talk for a minute and then you tell him how you really feel and you have to make it clear but kindly and gently, Hope my advice works out for you :)


babyblue says:

Posted on 22 Jun 2011

twinn x p i havee the same problem reason why i lost 2 of my close guy friends i just didn't know what to do so yaa i avoided them and i guess we're no longer friends at all. yaaaa i have a problem with saying no i feel mean actually just like Dragana said i did that where when the guy was tryin to flirt with me and then he asked me whats wrong cuz i put sad statues on my faceebook ugh he thought i was talking about him -__- so i just said i liked this kid acting like i dunt know he likes me treating him just like friends telling secrets. Omggg LOL i feel the exact way if i dont like a guy and im in a bikini i feel awkward specially if hes looking so often i wld dress down sweat pants t-shirt around him. Just treat him like a friend and avoid giving anything that looks like flirting. Hardd for me to help cuz i dont know how to deal with things like this x D


vampkisses says:

Posted on 22 Jun 2011

hmm... if i were you i would hint that you just like being friends like 'your a really good friend im glad that were JUST friends' umm even if you dont like someone right now, i would talk to him about guys... tell him about a guy describe what he looks like tell him a name maybe? even if its not real... if you feel guilty easily then you might feel bad for this but its so much easier then just telling them that you dont like them or dont wanna date them... hope i helped


inside_out says:

Posted on 23 Jun 2011

Thanks everyone for your help :)
I hope it clears up...

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