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inclomplete_help asked:

03 Sep 2009

i need confidence, social wise and in school work, any ideas how?

i seem to hav a lack of confidence and self-esteem. whenever i hav to share with the rest of the class wot ive done, i can never do it because i always think that im wrong and that wot ive done isnt good enough. its getting so bad, i always seemed to be depressed. i hav trouble making new friends and its affecting my love life and everything, its ruining my life so can anyone please help me to gain confidence to contribute at school and make new friends? x



isthereareas0nf0rmetol0vey0u says:

Posted on 03 Sep 2009

Don't ever pay attention to people whose motives are to put you down. These people try to belittle your ambitions. The best thing to do is to ignore them and say to yourself, "Why even waste my breath on them?"

Talk confidently to people and don't be shy. Make yourself appear outgoing by using your body language. For example, if you are at a bar or any public place with a group of friends, sit back and look relaxed. Maintain eye contact with a woman for a split second and smile and if she smiles, then good. If she doesn't, just forget about it. Don't ever let people get you down and if you face rejection you have to think in a positive say and say to yourself, "She is not worth it and I'm too good for her."

If she does smile, approach the woman and introduce yourself. For example, "Hi, I'm (Name)." And carry on the conversation from there.

If you let whatever people say about you get to you, then you will not go anywhere in life. If you are in an interview, and you don't appear confident, chances are you will not get hired. The same thing applies to normal, everyday life.

“There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.

When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.” Use Kinesthetic Body Language. In other words, prove you are confident through your body movements. Walk with your head held high, chest out, and keep a smile on your face. If you are sitting down, lean back to look relaxed, but don't carry out your movements quickly. Do it slowly.

“With confidence, you can reach truly amazing heights; without confidence, even the simplest accomplishments are beyond your grasp.”

Be comfortable with who you are and present yourself that way. Don't care what other people have to say about your appearance. Let them do what they have to do, they will eventually get tired. Confidence is the most important attribute to have in your life and you should never let anyone shatter it.

Walk with your head high and tell yourself, "I am not perfect, but I love myself for who I am and I can do whatever the hell I want to do. No one can stop me from living my own life."

If you follow these steps, you can reach irrevocable heights with your life.


Even a good-looking guy can get turned down from the best-looking girl if all he asks her is "Oh, do you find me attractive?" Because that is a sign that he is low on his self-esteem and self-confidence. This is because the guy can't even carry a mellifluous conversation that appears interesting. It shows weakness in character. Whereas an average or ugly man carries a well conversation and delivers all the right signals to a woman.

Body language is very important to catch a woman's attention and is more important than verbal conversation because women sense your confidence and how you carry yourself on your body language. If you slouch, you appear nervous on the surface, whereas if you lean back, look relaxed on your facial expressions, and carry your movements out slowly, people sense that you are calm, cool, and collected. But also, laugh and look approachable to people as well.


cucumber_fanatic says:

Posted on 03 Sep 2009

Well, you could start by standing up straighter. and by that, i mean that you need to accept that you are who you are. If can't see how amazingly awesome you are, how do you expect anyone else to see that way? The key to having a good self esteem is acceptance.Find the positive things in the work you do, and be proud of it!! if you want friends, you need to make an effort. Try making the first move, introduce yourself, offer them help with homework, sit by them at lunch, just be yourself! :D


barbipixi says:

Posted on 04 Sep 2009

i will say acting like you believe gives people that impression and they ususally start treating you different

and if you do it long enough you usually start beliving in it yourself

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