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ilovebenbruce asked:

06 Mar 2011

Still a virgin?? lameeee.

(sorry for posting the same Q 2 times. I messed up the 1st one xD)

Anyway, I'm a virgin, & I dont really wanna be anymore. But, I have the type of mother who would KILL me if I did. I feel like I want to, but then again I'm not sure if I'm ready but I just kinda wanna get it over with or whatever. is it normal to feel this way???



jessd says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2011

im a virgin! i get where your comin from, you and i are both young and im sure alot of people in your school do it. I know in mine there are. Your just curious and thats normal. i was dating an 18 year old and we went out for 4 months. i wanted to have sex with him and i thought i was ready too, but than we broke up. so i suggest waiting. and if your in a relationship wait until 6 months to do soo


liesalgirl777 says:

Posted on 08 Mar 2011

I think the most romantic thing in the world is to wait and give everything to your husband. He would be able to tell that I truly loved him if I worked that hard to stay pure. Stand against the pure pressure, unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases are astoundingly common. So I choose to wait, and give my husband a special gift on my wedding night. I hope you choose the same.


musicqs says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

Waiitt! its so much better that way. 14 is to young to deal with the stuff that could go wrong. Why not save it for that 'special someone' yeah that sounds dumb sure you know what i mean(: Im 14 and i still havent had my frist kiss...yeah now THATS lame..hahhaa. Of course its something to tease the guys about (; hahaha...Im my opinion id wait b/c if you want it now its gunna be better when your older..if that made any sense...Hope it helped :P


cherryl says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

you know I lose mine very young.. like 14.. and I am not gonna lie to you I liked it... hahaha but now that I am with my first love I wish I have Waited.. I know people say that it's bull S%^$ to wait for the right guy but now I kind of agree because I would have liked to lose it with him... and I can assure you that it even feels much better... So think twice


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

Think twice about why you wanna lose it. Is it because of pressure? Or just for the heck of it? Believe me, it is not lame to be a virgin at your age! Deciding when to lose it is a very personal choice, but then again, at 14 or 15 it is not even a choice. Call me a prude or a hypocrite. I lost mine at very young age too, and I got more flack than uhm, approval from the whole thing! Needless to say, I regret it. Though it's normal to feel the way you do, I suggest you wait for the right time and for the right guy.


davie2010 says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

yeah... what everyones saying... i agree. i still am an do feel that same way sometimes so i think its normal. hang in there!


xheynyuelle05 says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

that's normal! my suggestion is, DON'T! :D lol you will regret it.


megatron says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

I think it's normal to feel this way, especially with the generation we're living in where 12 and 13 year olds have already had intercourse.
I actually wish that I had my virginity still. It was taken from me and I would do anything to have it back. So I'd advise waiting until you're more than positive that you're with the right person and you're ready. Trust me, you'll know when it's the right time.
Just try not and worry about something so silly. I have loads of friends that still have their virginity. In fact, I only know four people that've had sex. So no worries, dear. :D


runningwithscissors says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2011

It's a normal feeling, but please don't ever do it.
I lost mine to a guy that I was, still am, and always will be completely in love with. We waited until I was ready, and I'm sure that makes all the difference.
Don't regret your first time. Just wait.


babyblue says:

Posted on 06 Mar 2011

its not worth losin if its with the wrong person . lool im a virgin too and i would b ashamed at my age if i wasn't . i guess its normal cuz if a lot of people around you aren't virgins that could make you feel like your the only one especially if there callin u lame for being one.
but...i still dont think you should throw it away lmao its somethin u cant get back.


joanne456 says:

Posted on 06 Mar 2011

yeah i think everyone feels like that but if ur not ready ya should wait till its right and with someone who is right for u then it will mean something to you . theres no rush xxx


chloelouise says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2011

It is completely normal to feel this way. But you can only loose your virginity once in your life, so don't rush into it and loose it to someone you don't even love.

It would be lovely if everyone waited until you found the ones we love, but life isn't perfect and people rush into things/loose it early, so you may come across someone you really like and want to loose it too and find out that they're not a virgin. Some people would say that loosing it to a virgin would be nicer, as you're both loosing it to one another. Others would say that loosing it to a non virgin will make it less awkward as they would most likely know what to do.

It's not lame to be a virgin, in fact, I have a lot of respect for people who still are virgins growing up these days through the teen age years when there is just so much sex everywhere. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy I thought I loved, and maybe I did love him, but all I know now is that it's the worst decision I've ever made. I'm now almost 17 and in love with my boyfriend and I wish I hadn't lost it so pathetically.

I'm not going to lie, it's one of the most painful, scary, intimidating and humiliating things you're ever going to do in your life. So at least loose it to someone you love.

Hope I helped xox


lindseed says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2011

I was a virgin when i was 14, cause i never felt like it was the right time (and i didnt have a boyfriend until i was 13) but when i started dating my current boyfriend i knew he was the one. i know how cheesy that sounds, but its true. he's just like me in all the right ways, but different enough to keep things interesting. we started dating the summer before freshman year when he asked me out in summer gym class. (:
i lost my virginity to him six months later and it was the most amazing night of my life.
but we had been dating for a while, talked about it beforehand, and made sure we were on the same page. finally, and oppertunity arose where we could sleep together then cuddle, because that's the kind of boy he is.
we went to his family's lake house on norris lake, and the final night we were staying therewe snuck into the extra room, and took it slow and steady. it was powerful.
then we snuggled for the next three hours talking about how we didn't really feel any different adn didn't feel like it should change our relationship. it eventually evolved into relating it to how people always ask if you feel different on your birthday and you never really do.. then laughing that my grandpa spells my name wrong.
uh, wow. that's a lot of personal stuff. sorry for the time waster. :p
but you need to find the right person to give it to. i'm glad he has mine and i have his, because he's my first love and look, it made us even stronger together. we've been dating for two years now and don't plan to end it any time soon.


lindseed says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2011

and when my mom found out, sure she was mad (cause she found out by his mom telling him that i had snuck over and slept over..), but she understood that we're teenagers and it's normal to explore the human emotions and body.


ilovebenbruce says:

Posted on 13 Aug 2011

that's interesting. xD but thanks. & yuhh didn't waste my time. haha, I have nothing better to do :3 and I have recently found an amazing guy. actually, I've been like in love with him for a year. haha & we finally started going out. we dated a year ago, but it kinda ended unofficially. if that makes since. xP anyways, now I hope this time that we will stay together much longer & he will hopefully be my first. x) but he's not a virgin D: so that makes me feel a little weird. O.o

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